girl problems
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jdragunas
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you do realize this thread is 2 months old, right?
oneradtek
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yo buddy, heres some advice and see how it goes.....girls give obvious signs of liking guys....theyre not as elusive as people think....but as a rule of thumb you shouldnt try to date a girl that shows no interest....i personally go out and sit at a bar with my buds and reject girls if they ask me phone numbers...obviosuly with a smaile, but none the less it makes them want you more....but i see in your situation she probably thinks of you as a friend or just student to tutor.....dont just "like" her becuase shes good looking though, but if u really wanna get her to take some time....grow a set and ask her to get something to eat....nothing bad will happen to ya....rejection isnt bad and im sure she wont.....tutors arent immature girls...they know what theyre doing...so either your going out to eat as friends or maybe you might hit it off....dont go in thnking that youre gonna possibly be datin....if youre lookin for a gf you wont find one.....its the law....i always tell my buddy this same stuff and its funny becuase he never listens...i recently broke up with a ex and now i have been dating for the last few months....he has been single for a longtime and still never gets a date.....idk....i just think play it cool and ask her to go out to eat .....girls like the nice guy role, but you gotta be upfront sometimes....let me know....oh yea...heres a pic of my ex gf.....just so you can beleive me when i say i know what im doin haha
lovethesea
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jdragunas
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one, if i asked for a guys number at a bar, and he said no, that wouldn't make me want him more... you come off pretty arrogant, so maybe you get those snobby kinda girls that like that sort of thing... you know, the ones that aren't "marriage material", and are just "looking for a good time"...
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jdragunas
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oh yeah, and the whole "wooing girls" thing isn't a good idea either. You meet a guy, he seems really nice, so you start dating him. He's perfect! Then all of a sudden, six months later, he starts changing. He becomes more comfortable that you're not going to leave him, so he becomes his "real" self. Then you're like WTF??? this is not the guy i started dating... then you end up dumping him because he "wooed" you into liking someone that didn't exist at all... it was all just a front. That really sucks, and that's probably why your ex split... JMO
keleighr
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Originally Posted by jdragunas
oh yeah, and the whole "wooing girls" thing isn't a good idea either. You meet a guy, he seems really nice, so you start dating him. He's perfect! Then all of a sudden, six months later, he starts changing. He becomes more comfortable that you're not going to leave him, so he becomes his "real" self. Then you're like WTF??? this is not the guy i started dating... then you end up dumping him because he "wooed" you into liking someone that didn't exist at all... it was all just a front. That really sucks, and that's probably why your ex split... JMO
TOTALLY agree.
One I would never ask a guy for his number (welllll unless it was Brad Pitt!). One never ever was that desperate. Two.....WHAT fricking gilrlasks guys for their number in a bar???
oneradtek I won't say that your lines are the thing working for you, I will say it is your looks. You are a good looking guy. No doubt but the Wooing aspect that you got going isn't.
My husband was a blind date. I had just come out of a real crappy relationship and hadn't dated anyone in over a year because of trust issues with men.
The onlyh reason why I agreed to meeting him was because he made me laugh. I hadn't laughed in so long that it felt good and I wanted to meet this man who could make me laugh again.
10 years later this man can still make me laugh.
Once your looks are gone and the --- is gone what are you going to have if it was all on "wooing".
My first date with my man we sat and talked for over 7 hours. REAL talk....not the stupid chatter you do at a bar or a club.
If you are looking for a quick fling than Woo away. Cause it won't last and I am not saying it would be the "wooer's" fault.
Just oneradtec said......."don't just like for her looks" cause in order for something to even last you need a whole lot more than looks.
oh yeah, and the whole "wooing girls" thing isn't a good idea either. You meet a guy, he seems really nice, so you start dating him. He's perfect! Then all of a sudden, six months later, he starts changing. He becomes more comfortable that you're not going to leave him, so he becomes his "real" self. Then you're like WTF??? this is not the guy i started dating... then you end up dumping him because he "wooed" you into liking someone that didn't exist at all... it was all just a front. That really sucks, and that's probably why your ex split... JMO
TOTALLY agree.
One I would never ask a guy for his number (welllll unless it was Brad Pitt!). One never ever was that desperate. Two.....WHAT fricking gilrlasks guys for their number in a bar???
oneradtek I won't say that your lines are the thing working for you, I will say it is your looks. You are a good looking guy. No doubt but the Wooing aspect that you got going isn't.
My husband was a blind date. I had just come out of a real crappy relationship and hadn't dated anyone in over a year because of trust issues with men.
The onlyh reason why I agreed to meeting him was because he made me laugh. I hadn't laughed in so long that it felt good and I wanted to meet this man who could make me laugh again.
10 years later this man can still make me laugh.
Once your looks are gone and the --- is gone what are you going to have if it was all on "wooing".
My first date with my man we sat and talked for over 7 hours. REAL talk....not the stupid chatter you do at a bar or a club.
If you are looking for a quick fling than Woo away. Cause it won't last and I am not saying it would be the "wooer's" fault.
Just oneradtec said......."don't just like for her looks" cause in order for something to even last you need a whole lot more than looks.
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jdragunas
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well, i think people can't help not liking eachother for looks... it's nature's way of weeding out the ugly people... LMAO!!! J/k... but really, it's in our genes to find someone attractive to us. Like butterflies, they chose their mate based on it's beautiful wings...
you know, this is kind of off topic, but my cousin has this theory about "natural selection" in humanity... Ok, so here it is. In high school (last year for her), she noticed that all of the stupid people in school were the ones always getting pregnant. Then it dawned on her that if the stupid ones keep getting pregnant so young, and the smart ones wait until they graduate college to get married and pregnant, then it's doomed that the stupid ones are going to pass on their genes at a much quicker rate than the smart ones, and in a few hundred years, the whole planet is going to be run by a bunch of bimbo blondes getting pregnant at the age of 10... i'm so sad for this planet...
you know, this is kind of off topic, but my cousin has this theory about "natural selection" in humanity... Ok, so here it is. In high school (last year for her), she noticed that all of the stupid people in school were the ones always getting pregnant. Then it dawned on her that if the stupid ones keep getting pregnant so young, and the smart ones wait until they graduate college to get married and pregnant, then it's doomed that the stupid ones are going to pass on their genes at a much quicker rate than the smart ones, and in a few hundred years, the whole planet is going to be run by a bunch of bimbo blondes getting pregnant at the age of 10... i'm so sad for this planet...
connor
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Originally Posted by jdragunas
you know, this is kind of off topic, but my cousin has this theory about "natural selection" in humanity... Ok, so here it is. In high school (last year for her), she noticed that all of the stupid people in school were the ones always getting pregnant. Then it dawned on her that if the stupid ones keep getting pregnant so young, and the smart ones wait until they graduate college to get married and pregnant, then it's doomed that the stupid ones are going to pass on their genes at a much quicker rate than the smart ones, and in a few hundred years, the whole planet is going to be run by a bunch of bimbo blondes getting pregnant at the age of 10... i'm so sad for this planet...
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you know, this is kind of off topic, but my cousin has this theory about "natural selection" in humanity... Ok, so here it is. In high school (last year for her), she noticed that all of the stupid people in school were the ones always getting pregnant. Then it dawned on her that if the stupid ones keep getting pregnant so young, and the smart ones wait until they graduate college to get married and pregnant, then it's doomed that the stupid ones are going to pass on their genes at a much quicker rate than the smart ones, and in a few hundred years, the whole planet is going to be run by a bunch of bimbo blondes getting pregnant at the age of 10... i'm so sad for this planet...
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