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t316

t316

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Seriously Pez...I remember some of my very first "pre being able to drive" dates where parents were very protective. Yes, a movie was good, just get parents to drop off and pick you back up. Another was to go out/ride with another couple to the mall, and as soon as you get there, split up and go your seperate ways. Either of these options gives you an opportunity to have some alone time with her if you like, yet also allows you an out in case it's not going so well. You might think she's hot right now, but until you spend a little more time with her, you have no idea about compatability. You may get 30 mins into the date and wish you back here typing on SWF. For first dates, ALWAYS leave a little wiggle room for a way to 'ease' out of the situation, such as the mall trip...you can always have a meet back time with the other couple, etc. In either case, as a young man, rule #1 is to show her respect, and never, ever hurt her feelings. This will carry you far in life my friend.
 
snakeblitz33

snakeblitz33

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Go play pool, go bowling, go to the park to hang out, meet at a friends house and play board games.
When you are first starting to date, the best thing to do is to get to know the person you are dating.
When I met my wife, our first date goes as follows:
My best friend invited her and her sister over (he was dating her sister). I came over, and met her, we went on a long walk together, asking each other questions and what-not. Played a game called "What's your favorite?" and we still play that game sometimes. Anyways, we came back to my best friends house and then went to a chess tournament. We played against each other for awhile and had a great time. We went back to my best friends house where I asked her out and then talked and her parents came to pick her up.
In my opinion, movies are great for people that know each other pretty well already. JMO.
But, hey - I'm horrible at relationships, lol. I just know I love my wife :D
 
nw2salt08

nw2salt08

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I think the bowling idea was good. Like everyone else has stated, have some friends meet up there with you and enjoy. Definitely compliment her. Say her hair looks nice or compliment her perfume....all of us love this....
Definitely be respectful and polite....another good quality. Even if she doesn't notice or just wants to be friends, chances are someone else will. Either way, as long as you have fun and be yourself, that's what counts.
 
stdreb27

stdreb27

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Don't waste your time, at the age of 25, I've concluded, girls are crazy. But if you MUST date one.
Take her fishing/hiking/camping/or invite her to watch the game, then make her cook for you, if she passes, then hang around for a little while...
 
alix2.0

alix2.0

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Originally Posted by stdreb27
http:///forum/post/2942835
Don't waste your time, at the age of 25, I've concluded, girls are crazy. But if you MUST date one.
Take her fishing/hiking/camping/or invite her to watch the game, then make her cook for you, if she passes, then hang around for a little while...
why do you only want to date girls who act like guys?
 
pezenfuego

pezenfuego

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I know a girl exactly like the one you are telling me to look for STDREB...unfortunately, she is more of a man than I will ever be.
Thanks for the help guys. There is a lot of good advise here. Unfortunately I can't do anything with her this weekend because I am going to perfect north slopes with my boyscout troop. Unless we plan for Sunday, but I don't know if that will work. I'll just talk to her and some other friends tomorrow. If not next week will be good. She IS grounded, but I don't know if that's just from her phone or what? I'll have to find that out too.
 
pezenfuego

pezenfuego

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Originally Posted by AquaKnight
http:///forum/post/2942857
Rent a hotel room on the beach. 80% of the time, it works everytime...

--- with her hadn't even crossed my mind. I like to think I'm halfway decent about being a gentleman and am certainly not a perve.
 
alix2.0

alix2.0

Active Member
Originally Posted by PEZenfuego
http:///forum/post/2942868
--- with her hadn't even crossed my mind. I like to think I'm halfway decent about being a gentleman and am certainly not a perve.
cant anyone take a nice walk on the beach or sit around a campfire anymore?
 
stdreb27

stdreb27

Active Member
Originally Posted by alix2.0
http:///forum/post/2942842
why do you only want to date girls who act like guys?
Why not? If he dates a girly girl, he'll be forever sentenced to watch Jane Austin movies, romantic "comedies", and drug to musicals, fART galleries, and other girly stuff.
 
joe____17

joe____17

Member
Originally Posted by stdreb27
http:///forum/post/2942949
Why not? If he dates a girly girl, he'll be forever sentenced to watch Jane Austin movies, romantic "comedies", and drug to musicals, fART galleries, and other girly stuff.

This man speaks the truth! My gf is somewhat of a girly girl but she also likes alot of action movies and likes to play video games and sports. So its awesome!
 
crimzy

crimzy

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Originally Posted by stdreb27
http:///forum/post/2942835
Don't waste your time, at the age of 25, I've concluded, girls are crazy. But if you MUST date one.
Take her fishing/hiking/camping/or invite her to watch the game, then make her cook for you, if she passes, then hang around for a little while...
You're quite a smoothie...

Unfortunately I think the OP knows more about women at this point than you do.
 
aquaknight

aquaknight

Active Member
Each to their own on the ages, I guess just depends on how you grow up. Could sell some pokemon's or magic cards, whatever they're into nowadays...
Def. a girly girl FWIW. However, a girly girl that knows better then to drag us to the salon or craft store. When I'm in the garage, or football's on TV she can watch, but no talkie-talkie...
 
t316

t316

Active Member
Originally Posted by PEZenfuego
http:///forum/post/2943195
Yep. you hit the nail on the head.
Are you an Eagle?
No, I'm an ASM. My oldest son is Life working on Eagle as well. Middle son is bridging over from Web's, and youngest is a Tiger.
That's where "T316" comes from
 
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eric b 125

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i've always found that movies ARE a good idea when first starting to date, as long as you are doing something after the movie. that way there's something to talk about to avoid that awkward silence.
 
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