I am sorry for your losses as well, Mark and iyachtuxivm; it's always sad to lose a little fishie.
and I appreciate all the concern, but I'm okay. Still sick with a wicked cold, but I'll make it.
anyway... I just came here to update that this is the end of this tank diary. As soon as I am feeling better, I will be making arrangements for my tank and all of its contents to go to my LFS to be on display there. I totally trust the owners there to take care of my babies like they should be taken care of and it's the LFS closest to my house (10 mins away) so I can "visit" them anytime I want to. There will be NO SELLING of any of the fish, that's my only request.
It was not an "easy" decision, but it was the best decision. Since this tank is in my office at work, the only time I'm around it is Monday through Friday, 8:30am-5:00pm. I have been much busier and things have gotten more hectic that I'm lucky now to be able to look at my tank for 5 minutes a day. Aside from my weekly water changes and every other day feedings, this is all the time I've had for the tank and I don't think it's right. I've been under a lot of stress at work because I do have a "got to do it now" demanding job, so when it's time to go at the end of the day, it's time to go... I don't want to spend another second there that I don't have to. I would come in on the weekends and during my vacations to check on my tank. I am sick as a dog and have been out of work, but I still had to come in to check on my tank. It has worn me out. I love all my little critters dearly, but in my opinion, this is the best thing I can do for them. They will go to a nice new home and be taken care of by people that I know and trust and I can visit them anytime I want to. I know that it's going to break the hearts of my patients and other visitors who love to come into my office to stare at the tank, but I just can't do it anymore.
I appreciate all the support I got from everyone while I was keeping this diary. You all Rock!
Now you'll have to save those comments and bring them over to my 14g thread.
No worries, my heart is still in the hobby and I plan to keep my 14 forever since it's at home where I can relax and spend more time with it.