Good news this morning she was out and the cherub seemed like he couldn't care less about her. When I fed (spirilna brine and cyclops) she ate very well. I know they are supposedly hard to keep long term and getting them to eat is said to big the biggest part, but this girl is little(~2") and eating well(already eating pellet). I feel pretty good she is going in a large reef system (100 gallon) I fed a large variety of foods (Rods' Reef food, mysis, cyclops, spirlina brine, blood worms, formula 1 and 2 frozen and pellet, red and green algae sheets) so hopefully she will do well