Well IMO...which no body asked, but going to give it anyhow...LOL...all this is constructive criticism....when I start throwing things in my tank I will start asking questions and expecting (which should go unsaid, in a forum with aquatic enthusiasts) feedback and how I can improve my tank. That being said..there are others that go a little overboard with calling us newbies idiots, stupid, jerks, etc. As if they were born with a set of gills behind their ears and were never beginners. The way I am going to avoid comments like that, simple....REASEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH.....and thus far, I have found this site to be great for info.
So Nemo1984, lighten up with comments and suggestions you get (if indeed it upset you) from this site, there are tons of knowledgeable people on here...run with the suggestions you like, discard the rest.