Originally Posted by
fumanchu88
I am with a little help when i dont have the answers
If you are seriously willing to learn, here are some answers.
Any ammonia in an aquarium is absolutely unacceptable. It is toxic to inverts and fish. It burns gills, etc. It is lethal and must be addressed. Water changes must be done to eliminate it.
As you have stated you are a "do it yourselfer". Learn from your mistakes. Do not continue to add livestock to a tank where there have already been fatalities.
Anemones need stable aquariums. Your's is not right now. If/when the anemone dies it will relase a large amount of toxins (see ammonia warning above) and could wreak further havoc on your tank.
Read the stickied post at the top of the forum.
Tell us more about your tank. How big, filtration, lighting, etc.