The palm is out for now, it needs an established aquarium. I am going to return my anemone. I don't want it to die. That's what gets me so mad. I'm not one to go out and just buy something at random. I do the research, all the LFS stores laugh when they see my book. I search the web for things I want. When I find it, I print it up, cut it out and tape it in my book. I am making sure everything gets along with everything. They are compatble with my size tank, the water flow, the lighting, the food everyone will eat. I wanted an anenome, but I was nervous cause they can move and sting all the other corals. I'm not putting anything aggressive in my tank. Then I found the Florida Condi. and it was peacefull, and pretty and reef safe so taped in my book.(the picture that is) Nowhere did it say it needed an established tank. It just gets me mad, that no matter how much homework you do, sometimes it's still not enough.