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Originally Posted by
bionicarm http:///t/392544/next-up-chalk-will-be-considered-a-lethal-weapon#post_3486830
Look like a ghetto? Some little kid using colored chalk that will wash off in 5 minutes will make the park "look like a ghetto"? Now that's a stretch. Do you know how the cop reacted and asked the lady to have her kid quit marking the rock with chalk? I've dealt with some pretty arrogant cops who think just because someone gives them a badge and a gun, they can treat people any way they want. Some lowly park ranger who has a chip on his shoulder because he has to walk around the park looking for people using chalk on rocks, pet owners not curbing their dogs, or some clown on a bike not yielding to pedestrians on the sidewalk. Dis he ask kindly, "Miss, we don't allow anyone to mark or write on those specific rocks. Could you please have your daughter stop using her chalk?" Or did he reply, "Hey lady! What's you're kid doing with that chalk and defacing those rocks? You got 10 seconds to get her to stop, or I'm going to write you up for vandalism." If a cop responded to me the second way, I might have gotten into his face as well.
You know today it is just a chalk mark and tomorrow it might be spray paint. Children love to be artistic and love to color and paint. Do I think the cop over reacted...a little bit. However mom reacted shamefully. She taught the child that authority doesn't matter, that cops are stupid, and that she should be allowed to express herself any way she wants.
You can voice your distaste with a formal complaint, and it goes into an officers permanent record and it does prevent him from getting promotions. Screaming in an officers face in front of a child is not how to teach a child to handle lifes "upsets"
which is a parents duty. It isn't what you say that teaches the child, they watch and learn from how you act.
Think of what the child could have learned if mom had some sense. First appologize to the officer saying it was just chalk... and you thought it would be alright, then help the child clean off the offending marks. And if mom was angry and felt the officer was being out of line or over reacted, ....take the child by the hand, (to reasure her all was well) ask the officer for his badge number and both of them go to the station and explain what happened and lodge a complaint that you felt the officer over reacted and was power mad.
The child could have learned that even those in authority have bosses and there is a proper way to handle things besides anger...instead another disrepectful youth was created, who thinks of nobody but herself, has learned from littlehood from mom to scream in a persons face when they don't get their way.... that will enter our society with such attitudes ...to teach her child to be even worse.....what a shame, what a crying shame.