I do have the blue tooth thingy, and also a cord, I still don't know how to do it, I will have to go to the nextel store on one of my days off. I went to that site, and I got a song onmy phone, but I don't know how to get it to be a ringtone, its just in my media files. Now, after I got that song, when I try to get anymore, it just says nextel does not accept ringers, but I did get one?