I totally agree. The nonsense needs to stop. Organizations and the NFL, in general, should hold their players' conduct at a higher standard. Pacman, Henry, and others are very unacceptable and are well worth the punishment received.
Pacman could start playing after 10 games if he behaves perfectly, attends one meeting with the team every week, stays away from the practice field, and does everything else required during the suspension. I don't think he will be able to do all of those things, but if he is able to, allowing him to play after 10 games is fair.