No problem deciding here in Texas:
Beer--Ziegenbach (microbrewery here in Tx)
Honey Brown (microbrew NY)
Liqour--Tekillya---cheaper the better (nothing like a $4 bottle of tekillya!!)
Mixed--Margarita
And Jillian, dump the loser. If he can't say he loves you because you lost your job then he must be real bum. Probably hoping to sponge off your minimum wage income
Get a guy closer to your age...I worry about a guy who gets into a relationship with someone 15 years younger than him. My .02