UPDATE:
Mother has been in and out of the ER and is now back in the hospital. I have been giving her blood thinner injections until her new medicine takes full effect. My brother in law was to have a colon test to check for cancer, so I took my mother to my sisters while I drove her husband to the appointment..she can't drive. Anyway Mother had chest pains going up into her jaw... we called an ambulance...she is back in the hospital again.
My brother in law and Mother were in the same hospital at the same time. Bud was cleared of cancer so we did have some good news. It's been a very long day. We also had a family meeting today, It has been decided that Mother is not to ever be left alone, my sister (lives the closest) promised to stay with her if I have errands to run and such, and we also decided to not allow her to drive anymore. She seemed to take the news okay but her memory is slipping and I'm not sure everything registered that we talked about.
One minute she looks great and trhe next we are calling an ambulance. I'm a wreck. She is safe and tucked in for now, I just talked to her on the phone and she sounds just fine again. It never felt so good to put on a night gown and kick back..but the house is so empty.
Darth...LOL...in Judaism it is a custom for the husband to praise the wife. In that praise song it declares that on her lips are words of kindness...My late husband would pretend to cough, and the children would all giggle during that part...because they told me I have a very sharp tongue.... LOL....I would scold them, and say it's a song of praise so show some respect.
When three people say you were a bit harsh....I have learned to listen.