Kelly, you are missing the issue at hand.
If a thread is removed, just assume someone in the thread did or said something vulgar. There is no reason to ask why it was removed, because then you open up the door for the action to occur again. If you think it was something you did, then think about what you did and deduce if it fit into a vulgar or offensive category. Again, if you feel you did nothing, there is no reason to ask why. Most threads are just closed and not removed however. I have gone back read those threads and ALWAYS figured out why.
The mods have how many posts a day to monitor. They WILL NOT catch them all. You are one person out of many and if you were slighted by rudeness in the form of information that is one thing....but many of the closed and deleted threads were done so because of hatred and vileness. There is a difference.
The mods didn't point any fingers. I knew not of who they were refering to....your own admission shows some guilt and remorse. If you had not stepped forward and felt slighted by the comment no fingers would have been pointed. By your own admission, you pointed the finger at yourself.
I have NOT seen any racist comments in threads that have not been closed down.
Everytime this issue is brought up you seem to take offense to it. Makes a person stop to think why that is. Regardless, the mods have the liberty to delete, close , or leave open threads at their choosing. Like a prosecuting attorney, they get to pick their battles. To ask them to do more and create an even playing field all over is preposterious and impossible as they CAN NOT see and view every thread.
Ask yourself, in the threads you felt were racist, did you report them? If the answer is no....then there is nothing to complain about. I have reported 1 thread in my tenure here. It was dealt with.
Ultimately it boils down to this, if you don't like the moderators handling of a situation it can be solved easily. There is an X you can click. You choose to come here. You can also to choose to leave if you feel unfairly treated. I have seen no favortism on their part.............When I first got here I even had an arguement with one of them. I was warned they could ban me for it by another poster. I wasn't banned. But if I was, it would have been for my own actions and not something forced on me. I have read the rules and know them. just because someone gets away with something on occasion does NOT mean you should.
OJ got away with murder is the general consensus....should you go out and kill someone because he got away with it?
Darth (hands add cushion) Tang