Xenias are a bit finiky but yet hearty coral, IMO. The two tanks probably didn't have the same water perameters or same lighting. I would guess that the store that had the xenias that were pulsing, maintained the water quality a bit more and may have had stronger or newer lights. Probably also kept pH and alk levels up where they belong(pH=8.2-8.3 & alk=8-12 dKH). Alk and pH levels are what i beleive is the main factor in helping xenias pulse. I have personaly not witnessed many xenias pulse at a LFS. HTH