petieaztec
Member
not all guys are turds. like RU hes a stand up guy. really but some guys are insecure and that is why they are afraid to be themselves. some are just emotionally detached, and thats wierd.
swlover
Member
Originally Posted by TX Reef
The same thing goes for women. A women will do "certain things" and when you get married, she won't do it anymore. :hilarious
That being said, my wife is not like that and after 2 years of marriage I still send her flowers at work a few times a month, I make a bubble bath for her when she has had a rough day, and I still romance her.
I am a firm believer in communication and if you do things for your spouse, they will do something for you in return.
As for the original topic, I don't care what you say, I watch how you act. Actions are what makes a person, not words.
Here here! I agree...Your a sweetheart and your wife is probably the happiest woman on earth..well next to me! I have been hitched for 17 yrs...I knew my husbands faults and he knew mine...no bad surprises when we got married. It's all a give and take, you do "things" because you love them or in love with them. But we are friends first..you really can't have a loving relationship without the friends part. He is my best friend..I have no girlfriends because to be blunt I just don't trust other women...sorry girls..too many back stabbers I have met. I have really tried too..had a girlfriend that became my friend just so she could get close to my brother...another spread my inner most feelings to other women..I could go on and on..it just dosen't work for me. My mother-in-law is probably my closest female friend..we love to drink wine together and just chat about the "boys" similarities. Sorry this so long...I'm old so I have alot of experience with ppl..their actions and what they say don't always jive
The same thing goes for women. A women will do "certain things" and when you get married, she won't do it anymore. :hilarious
That being said, my wife is not like that and after 2 years of marriage I still send her flowers at work a few times a month, I make a bubble bath for her when she has had a rough day, and I still romance her.
I am a firm believer in communication and if you do things for your spouse, they will do something for you in return.
As for the original topic, I don't care what you say, I watch how you act. Actions are what makes a person, not words.
Here here! I agree...Your a sweetheart and your wife is probably the happiest woman on earth..well next to me! I have been hitched for 17 yrs...I knew my husbands faults and he knew mine...no bad surprises when we got married. It's all a give and take, you do "things" because you love them or in love with them. But we are friends first..you really can't have a loving relationship without the friends part. He is my best friend..I have no girlfriends because to be blunt I just don't trust other women...sorry girls..too many back stabbers I have met. I have really tried too..had a girlfriend that became my friend just so she could get close to my brother...another spread my inner most feelings to other women..I could go on and on..it just dosen't work for me. My mother-in-law is probably my closest female friend..we love to drink wine together and just chat about the "boys" similarities. Sorry this so long...I'm old so I have alot of experience with ppl..their actions and what they say don't always jive
whitey_028
Member
petieaztec
Member
people just say things to please others they are called non confrentational
you gotta mess with em while your datinmg to see how far their button will be pushed. some people are just naturally rational andd intead of getting mad about somthing they blow it off or tell ya to stop being silly. i like people like that. dont take life to seriously, or ya wont make it out.
alyssia
Active Member
Originally Posted by swlover
Here here! I agree...Your a sweetheart and your wife is probably the happiest woman on earth..well next to me! I have been hitched for 17 yrs...I knew my husbands faults and he knew mine...no bad surprises when we got married. It's all a give and take, you do "things" because you love them or in love with them. But we are friends first..you really can't have a loving relationship without the friends part. He is my best friend..I have no girlfriends because to be blunt I just don't trust other women...sorry girls..too many back stabbers I have met. I have really tried too..had a girlfriend that became my friend just so she could get close to my brother...another spread my inner most feelings to other women..I could go on and on..it just dosen't work for me. My mother-in-law is probably my closest female friend..we love to drink wine together and just chat about the "boys" similarities. Sorry this so long...I'm old so I have alot of experience with ppl..their actions and what they say don't always jive
Aw, I feel bad for you. I can't imagine my life w/o my friends! I've learned to appreciate friendship as I've gotten older.
Here here! I agree...Your a sweetheart and your wife is probably the happiest woman on earth..well next to me! I have been hitched for 17 yrs...I knew my husbands faults and he knew mine...no bad surprises when we got married. It's all a give and take, you do "things" because you love them or in love with them. But we are friends first..you really can't have a loving relationship without the friends part. He is my best friend..I have no girlfriends because to be blunt I just don't trust other women...sorry girls..too many back stabbers I have met. I have really tried too..had a girlfriend that became my friend just so she could get close to my brother...another spread my inner most feelings to other women..I could go on and on..it just dosen't work for me. My mother-in-law is probably my closest female friend..we love to drink wine together and just chat about the "boys" similarities. Sorry this so long...I'm old so I have alot of experience with ppl..their actions and what they say don't always jive
Aw, I feel bad for you. I can't imagine my life w/o my friends! I've learned to appreciate friendship as I've gotten older.
chickadee
Member
Originally Posted by Tizzo
Oh no, it's OK, This is as good as Grey's...
But well chick-a-dee, you had me fooled, I was about to start some serious therapy on you, LOL.
I wanted you to say, "because I love him" and that woulda went right back to my original topic, but I actually liked your goofiness more... But you DO realize, that from this point forward, I for one can't take anything you say seriously... ironic, considering the thread.
But in conclusion, your good... Are you jd? LOL...cause she was good like that... :thinking:
what's a jd? joking dollface? i'm not too sure about this... :notsure:
but, you really can't take anything i say seriously, unless i start my sentence with "but seriously..."
Oh no, it's OK, This is as good as Grey's...
But well chick-a-dee, you had me fooled, I was about to start some serious therapy on you, LOL.
I wanted you to say, "because I love him" and that woulda went right back to my original topic, but I actually liked your goofiness more... But you DO realize, that from this point forward, I for one can't take anything you say seriously... ironic, considering the thread.
But in conclusion, your good... Are you jd? LOL...cause she was good like that... :thinking:
what's a jd? joking dollface? i'm not too sure about this... :notsure:
but, you really can't take anything i say seriously, unless i start my sentence with "but seriously..."
chickadee
Member
and about your original post... sometimes you say something in the heat of the moment when you're angry, but you really don't mean it. I say things to my hubby when i get mad that i don't mean just because i want to piss him off as much as he's pissed me off. If there's something i want to say that's true to him, that'll be a whole separate discussion... i disagree that everything that you say when you're mad is just what's been waiting to come out, but you couldn't say it when you're happy...
reefreak29
Active Member
i was once told beleive nothing u here and only half what u see
ruaround
Active Member
Originally Posted by petieaztec
not all guys are turds. like RU hes a stand up guy. really but some guys are insecure and that is why they are afraid to be themselves. some are just emotionally detached, and thats wierd.
ahhh shucks... thanks peeps!!!
chicadee you had me fooled... well done you...
not all guys are turds. like RU hes a stand up guy. really but some guys are insecure and that is why they are afraid to be themselves. some are just emotionally detached, and thats wierd.
ahhh shucks... thanks peeps!!!
chicadee you had me fooled... well done you...
swlover
Member
Originally Posted by alyssia
Aw, I feel bad for you. I can't imagine my life w/o my friends! I've learned to appreciate friendship as I've gotten older.
No don't feel bad for me, I would never stop tring to make a girlfriend though..I'm always open for new friendships be it male or female. I'm just a little guarded when it comes to women..most men a pretty easy to read IMO, but I have been wrong a time or two! Two things I stay away from in any person..someone who won't look at you when they are speaking to you and ppl who look down their noses like they are better than everyone else...usually go hand in hand.
Aw, I feel bad for you. I can't imagine my life w/o my friends! I've learned to appreciate friendship as I've gotten older.
No don't feel bad for me, I would never stop tring to make a girlfriend though..I'm always open for new friendships be it male or female. I'm just a little guarded when it comes to women..most men a pretty easy to read IMO, but I have been wrong a time or two! Two things I stay away from in any person..someone who won't look at you when they are speaking to you and ppl who look down their noses like they are better than everyone else...usually go hand in hand.
startrfish
Member
hey sw lover, where in E. Tn are U?
mimzy
Active Member
Originally Posted by swlover
No don't feel bad for me, I would never stop tring to make a girlfriend though..I'm always open for new friendships be it male or female. I'm just a little guarded when it comes to women..most men a pretty easy to read IMO, but I have been wrong a time or two! Two things I stay away from in any person..someone who won't look at you when they are speaking to you and ppl who look down their noses like they are better than everyone else...usually go hand in hand.
People who refuse to make eye contact are either lying, expressing felt supririority, or are sociopaths. I agree- staying away from these folks is good practice!
No don't feel bad for me, I would never stop tring to make a girlfriend though..I'm always open for new friendships be it male or female. I'm just a little guarded when it comes to women..most men a pretty easy to read IMO, but I have been wrong a time or two! Two things I stay away from in any person..someone who won't look at you when they are speaking to you and ppl who look down their noses like they are better than everyone else...usually go hand in hand.
People who refuse to make eye contact are either lying, expressing felt supririority, or are sociopaths. I agree- staying away from these folks is good practice!
poniegirl
Active Member
I'd have to say I love having a smoke-blower around once in a while. It's pretty priceless to call someone on a raft of !@#* and watch them squirm. It amazes me that people who choose to stretch the story are so surprised when someone throws the story back at them.
I have a step-daughter who is a constant illusionist, or fabricator, as we call it. She does what my SO calls "getting puffy" and then she stays away for a week or two. Returns then as though nothing ever happened.
I have a step-daughter who is a constant illusionist, or fabricator, as we call it. She does what my SO calls "getting puffy" and then she stays away for a week or two. Returns then as though nothing ever happened.
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fishwilly1
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THIS IS NOT THE PLACE FOR YOUR PATHETIC LIVES!!!!! IF YOU ARE ANYWHERE AS BAD AS YOU ALL SOUND NO WONDER YOU HAVE FISH, PROBABLY GET REALLY EXCITED WHEN A CLOWN RUBS THE OTHER!! :happyfish LET'S LEAVE THIS TO THE FISH, IF YOU WANT TO LOOK FOR TRUE LOVE CALL DR. PHIL!!!
OTHER THAN THAT IF ANY OF THE MEN THAT ARE ON HERE OR THE WOMEN ARE WHINING ABOUT WOULD HAVE KEPT HIS WOMEN IN CHECK FROM THE GET GO, AND KNEW WHO WORE THE PANTS, NONE OF YOU WOULD BE HERE!!!
SO IN CLOSING LET'S THANK YOU NON SELF-RESPECTING MEN, AND YOU WOMEN WHO BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN CHANGE A MAN TO FIT YOU (WHEN YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS WHACKED OUT!
) FOR ALL OF YOUR INTEREST INTO THIS GREAT HOBBY.
:cheer: FISHWILLY ROCKS!!!!!! :cheer:
OTHER THAN THAT IF ANY OF THE MEN THAT ARE ON HERE OR THE WOMEN ARE WHINING ABOUT WOULD HAVE KEPT HIS WOMEN IN CHECK FROM THE GET GO, AND KNEW WHO WORE THE PANTS, NONE OF YOU WOULD BE HERE!!!
SO IN CLOSING LET'S THANK YOU NON SELF-RESPECTING MEN, AND YOU WOMEN WHO BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN CHANGE A MAN TO FIT YOU (WHEN YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS WHACKED OUT!
petieaztec
Member
Originally Posted by shogun323
Fishwilly1. I would like to recommend a book for you. It's called:
"How to Win Friends and Influence People"
You may find it beneficial.
Fishwilly1. I would like to recommend a book for you. It's called:
"How to Win Friends and Influence People"
You may find it beneficial.
lovethesea
Active Member
Originally Posted by FISHWILLY1
WOULD HAVE KEPT HIS WOMEN IN CHECK FROM THE GET GO,
and
sorry, but my grandma rasied me to never be "kept in check" by anyone but myself.
WOULD HAVE KEPT HIS WOMEN IN CHECK FROM THE GET GO,
sorry, but my grandma rasied me to never be "kept in check" by anyone but myself.