Tobin passed away at 4;20 this afternoon the doctors said his remaining kidney failed .he loved you all and you were such great support to us over the last couple of years. jenny
I am so sorry to hear this. I have been following your story on here and have been praying for him this whole time. If there is anything we can do to help, please let us know.
Originally Posted by GrouperGenius
Oh my friggin God.....
I can't talk now...sorry my old arese is cryin/////
i'm tearing up as well
jen, please know that his and your struggle have really touched a lot of lives and your family here is around when you want us to be.
I am so sorry for you loss Jenny. Tobin will be missed. I know from when my mother passed that words can only give a small amount of comfort. What Comforted me the most was how much my mother was loved other people. Thats what I remember the most from that time. I hope that you remember the same. I know from my time on these boards that Tobin was loved by all. He will be missed.
Patrick
Im so sorry for your loss, I have a deep sadness/shock in the pit of my loins. First time in my life I actually felt I knew somebody EVEN if it was in a forum, that passed away from cancer. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
thank you all. i really don't know what to do right now im just wandering around. my father will do his service at the church on friday i do not have a time yet
Jenny:
my husbands mother passed away the Tuesday before Thanksgiving a few years ago. It makes for a long week. Remember to take time for yourself.
Also remember to celebrate his love and devotion to you and your children. He knew he was loved unconditioanlly.
Originally Posted by jennythebugg
thank you all. i really don't know what to do right now im just wandering around. my father will do his service at the church on friday i do not have a time yet
what to do: just do whatever you think you need to. even if it is just sit and cry. even if it is just sit outside and look at the stars, knowing he's out there somewhere. even if it is playing a video game, or watching tv, or listening to the radio. he'll be with you, as will all of us.
Jenny,
I am truly heartbroken over this news, and yet I have to rejoice for Tobin.
1Cr 9:24 o you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize.
The image in my head is of Tobin standing next to Jesus with this monsterous crown on his head and a ginormous grin that you couldn't slap off!
He has truly run the race and won the prize, that is evident by all the peoples lives he has affected by sharing his faith and life.
I feel blessed to have gotten to know Tobin and you.
God Bless Tim
O wow I am truely sorry for your loss Jen, We are all with you and you are never alone you always have an outlet through any of us here I am sure that everyone can agree that he will be greatly missed!!!
You and your family will continue to be in my prayers!
Mike
I am so sorry to read this, and I wish there was something that I could say to help. Just knowing how hard he fought for so long was an inspiration, and as long as that inspiration lives in others, a part of him will too.
You and your family are in my thoughts.
Oh Jen, I am so so sorry! I really thought he was going to be okay. He was such a fighter. You both have been so in my thoughts since he got sick again. I wish there were something I could do, but I know that there isn't. Other, than keep you both in my mind and heart. Come back and talk to us when you are able, okay? Take care, Glenda