But because of this I am now not alloow to get her anything for B-day, or X-mas. Since this happend we buy one really big gift for each other. Hey this helps so I dont go NUTZZZZ when it comes to the holidays.... RIGHT? Well the second 2 X-mas we bought the 75 gallon salt water set up for us both. Because I did that $40 soap thing I came out ahead from there on out. 3rd X-mas Think it was a upgraded computer, 4th bed room set, 5th entertainment system, 6th was a 3 man hot tub with deck built around it.