What do you look for in a girl/guy?

[purity]

hopefully not too much warm & fuzzy crap in here. remember, anyone who says they like you for who you are is just too lazy or afraid to find anything better.
anywayz, my #1 traight is eyes. i love a girl with beautiful eyes (preferably jade green). match that with a cute & sincere smile on a face with smooth/fair skin and NOW we're talkin.
not too skinny. definetely not too fat. in shape. tight tummy & natural everything. highlights in hair always help. can look good without having to pile on makeup.
not a vegitartian or liberal. can't drive a vw beetle and doesn't consistently bring up her messed up past relationships- trust me, i don't care and i expect you not to care about mine either.
personality? of course! but please, no babblers. someone who has self respect, yet doesn't have to come off as the almighty empowered woman (when really this is just a women who has such a devastated past that she'll never let her guard down again).
street smart, has a good sense of humor, and values family over friends and relationships. doesn't dictate her values or actions on pride or keeping up w/ the joneses.
now of course there ARE other traights that are important but i can't really bring em up here.

 

[blackomne]

What do I look for in a woman In one Word:
:hilarious
Single.
So long as everything is within acceptable limits, that all I would look for.

 

[broncofish]

"I Know most guys would say a nice personality and great sense of humor.....but I am going to have to go with

[hr]
size" Mike Meyers in so I married an axe murderer.
I am sucker for redheads though...and chics who surf

 

[purity]

that reminds me bronc-
chicks that board. i LOVE snowbunnies!!!

 

[polarpooch]

A guy who is not a puss, and can and will defend himself and/or me if necessary. A guy who doesn't suffer idiots and isn't a doormat.
Someone who is bright and outgoing and at ease in his own skin...pretty much a "tell it like it is, no BS" kind of guy.
Liberals are out. Gotta like guns and animals. Gotta be able to win a debate with ME. (Hehehe, that's a tough one since I do it for a living)!
Physically, big, shiny eyes, good teeth, electric smile, thin and tall (but that's relative, because I'm only 5'3").
Must be able to cook and like it, because I won't. Understands that feng shui matters in a room (this makes my boyfriend mental, but he's learning!)!
American cars only, but won't rip on me for riding an Japanese cycle!
No crummy credit. Must be "inspired" to excel.
Must like conversation.
Must think I'm the coolest chick ever--or at least lie convincingly!
Yeah, I know...it doesn't exist. But I've come very close with my boyfriend now!!!

 

[blackomne]

I think what you are going for is what would be your ideal looking girl or guy.

:thinking:

 

[blackomne]

Originally posted by polarpooch
Must think I'm the coolest chick ever--or at least lie convincingly!

Polarpooch sincerely you are by far the coolest chick ever.

 

[razoreqx]

I just want her.

 

[polarpooch]

blackomne:
THANKS! It was CONVINCING!
OK, if you must have looks only, here are some celebs that I would not kick out of the sack! (can I say that here?):
Russel Crowe
The Rock (the hell is his real name, anyway?)
Jude Law
Ewan MacGregor
Bruce Willis
Keanu Reeves
Tony Snow (Fox News)

 

[razoreqx]

Originally posted by blackomne
Polarpooch sincerely you are by far the coolest chick ever.

I second that! I wouldnt kick her out of the sack!!

 

[kinkfish]

I have this great girlfriend is caring,not selfish so sweet has a great family.goes out of her way to be nice to everybody,cleans my house takes care of me. But the only problem is that she is starting to get some celluite on her ass and it bothers me because I come from a phisically fit family. I dont want to be shallow or anything but I have never had girlfriends that have had this problem. what should I do? I would marry this girl if it was not for that

 

[razoreqx]

Originally posted by kinkfish
I have this great girlfriend is caring,not selfish so sweet has a great family.goes out of her way to be nice to everybody,cleans my house takes care of me. But the only problem is that she is starting to get some celluite on her ass and it bothers me because I come from a phisically fit family. I dont want to be shallow or anything but I have never had girlfriends that have had this problem. what should I do? I would marry this girl if it was not for that
Work out with her

 

[kinkfish]

I have tried that and all she does is complain how she cant do it
and that all i do is criticize her

 

[watergal]

OK, if you must have looks only, here are some celebs that I would not kick out of the sack! (can I say that here?):
Russel Crowe
The Rock (the hell is his real name, anyway?)
Jude Law
Ewan MacGregor
Bruce Willis
Keanu Reeves
Tony Snow (Fox News) [/B]
Polar - nice choices I would take off Ewan MacGregor & Tony Snow and add Colin Ferrell, Vin Diesel & Jesse James (West Coast Choppers).

 

[blackomne]

Originally posted by polarpooch
blackomne:
THANKS! It was CONVINCING!
OK, if you must have looks only, here are some celebs that I would not kick out of the sack! (can I say that here?):
Russel Crowe
The Rock (the hell is his real name, anyway?)
Jude Law
Ewan MacGregor
Bruce Willis
Keanu Reeves
Tony Snow (Fox News)
Your Very Welcome PolarPooch. Hmm I don't know how I rank against them but I can cook.
kinkfish - If I had a girlfriend that pleased me in all ways, but she had bad teeth. I would gently coax her and I would pay to have them fixed. Hey that's me through.

 

[purity]

Originally posted by polarpooch A guy who is not a puss, and can and will defend himself and/or me if necessary. A guy who doesn't suffer idiots and isn't a doormat.
i'll be more than happy to chew out the throat of anyone who looks at you crosseyed
Originally posted by polarpooch
Someone who is bright and outgoing and at ease in his own skin...pretty much a "tell it like it is, no BS" kind of guy.
oh you know this
Originally posted by polarpooch
Liberals are out. Gotta like guns and animals. Gotta be able to win a debate with ME. (Hehehe, that's a tough one since I do it for a living)!
i hate liberals and am STILL awaiting to go on your show and debate
Originally posted by polarpooch
Physically, big, shiny eyes, good teeth, electric smile, thin and tall (but that's relative, because I'm only 5'3").
i just got my teeth lasered, use sonic care, and listerine on a daily basis.
Originally posted by polarpooch
Must be able to cook and like it, because I won't. Understands that feng shui matters in a room (this makes my boyfriend mental, but he's learning!)!
understand this:
there is NO better cook than i.
lemme say that again.
there is NO better cook than i.
Originally posted by polarpooch
American cars only, but won't rip on me for riding an Japanese cycle!

as long as you don't drive a beetle, miata, boxster, minivan, or z3 then i shall heart you forever
Originally posted by polarpooch
No crummy credit. Must be "inspired" to excel.

785 mid fico baby
Originally posted by polarpooch
Must like conversation.
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yuppers
Originally posted by polarpooch
Must think I'm the coolest chick ever--or at least lie convincingly!
i'd say yer 9 outta 10 on the coolness chart. have me on your show and i'll give you an 11
Originally posted by polarpooch
Yeah, I know...it doesn't exist. But I've come very close with my boyfriend now!!!
nope. i'm better. i can lick my eyebrow.
btw, you like ed norton?

 

[kittykitty]

Originally posted by kinkfish
I dont want to be shallow or anything but I have never had girlfriends that have had this problem. what should I do? I would marry this girl if it was not for that

don't wanna be shallow huh? ding ding ding!! You won a prize!! What do you want, a cookie? How about a supermodel that only cares about your money? You've got something good, who cares about the ass. Shallow. She should dump you.
Anyway,
I've got a great boyfriend. As far as looks go, I used to think that I had preferences, but I've discovered that as long as you're with a wonderful person whom you are totally in love with, anything that may not have been attractive to you before will be what you love the most about that person. (as far as physical things go)
Mine is sensitive (not too sensitive) protective, caring, loving, sweet, has a great sense of humor, knows when to be serious and when to kid around, knows all of the right things to say at the right time, knows how to deal with my insecurities and make me feel better about them, is always there for me, would go out of his way to help me, tells me every day that I am the most beautiful girl in the world, would quit his job just to spend more time with me if I felt lonely, makes fun of american idol/survivor/the swan/generic reality tv shows with me, makes fun of stupid/ignorant/crappy people with me, reminds me how much he loves me every day, knows how to love on me, and best of all, he is the best friend that I have ever had.
That's what I've always looked for in a guy and I found it!

 

[purity]

so how long you 2 been together for?

 

[lovethesea]

Originally posted by KittyKitty
don't wanna be shallow huh? ding ding ding!! You won a prize!! What do you want, a cookie? How about a supermodel that only cares about your money? You've got something good, who cares about the ass. Shallow. She should dump you.


thanks Kitty, you beat me to it.
Seriously Kinkfish.....your lucky. Have her sign a promise for you that she will
a. never get sick
b. never be in a car accident
c. remain self centered for the rest of her life
and lastly
d. never have a baby

 

[purity]

e. and never get fat