There's a bit of irony... my (current) wife was born and spent her entire life in in Miami. In the early stage of our relationship, I was worried that she might not like it here when it came time for one of us to make a move. I knew it would be a huge change for her, leaving from the hustle and bustle of the big city, to something along the lines of Mayberry, RFD. Or should I say "rural" Mayberry, RFD? She came over and spent a week here, and I showed her around and let her meet a lot of the people. She instantly fell in love with it, and moved here a month later. She says she finally feels "at home".
I understand your situation a little better now. You have to look at it as no matter how bad it is, it could always be worse. At least you have a small refuge to get away from the rat race, which is something a lot of people outside of your community can't say. I was born and raised in Corpus Christi, TX, and moving to rural MS was quite a culture shock. I was like... what do you guys do for fun around here? Heck... what do you do... period??? But as time went by, it grew on me without even knowing it. I've been a lot of places, but I always ended up back here. Not sure why, but it just seems to fit. Freakin" anemones... lol!