Also a possible stupid question but you are sure that your husband is not also adding top off water?
I hate to be obvious but there are only a few possibilities.
Primarily you may be losing more saltwater than from evaporation alone, or you are topping of much more than you lose. Do you have a fill line on your sump that you always fill to?
As also covered:
1) Measurement device is wrong (simply double check at LFS)
2) More freshwater is being added than realized - either from other people adding it, stuck float switch, etc
3) More saltwater is being removed than realized and not replaced with saltwater...e.g. a small leak leading you to top off more than you are losing from evaporation alone.
Hate to say it, but I almost never aerate and mix saltwater for more than 24hours and I have never had a problem like this. It is probably better, but I am lucky if I get motivated to do a water change so I'll take a few hours of mixing if I am lucky. For years I kept a tank, filled the bucket in the bathtub, swirled some salt into it, and was fine. Was it wise? no, and I don't recommend it. But I don't necessarily think it will result in stuff like this.
I think either the refractometer is broken...get it checked elsewhere. Or you are just adding far more freshwater than you need to replace water from evaporation. Otherwise, I'm stumped. If only you had some other water nearby - a fill line leak, a heat exchanger leak...but a stand alone system?...