Originally Posted by
Sharkboy13
theres this girl i like at school who seems to kinda notice me, i was hoping to ask her out altho i am waaay to chicken. can any1 give any advice on how to do this or make it less of a do or die situation?
well lookie here! it's time for more female advice from yours truely
you came to the right place me compadre so listen up:
ask her. don't think about it. ask her, or better yet SUGGEST to her. suggest to her that she should roll out w/ you (to the movies, or the mall, or wherever you kids like 2 go).
now she may reject you. get used to it. life's all about rejection. if she says yes, another girl will reject you down the road. and if she says no then another girl will say yes. you know who would say yes? one of her friends! ask em all out if you get rejected by her and one of em's bound to say yes. then you'll make her jealous, eventually date her too, and in the end you walked away with a 2-for-1 special.
you can't go through life trying to avoid rejection. get in there and get it done! don't worry about embarassment from rejection. you've been embarrassed before, it sucked, but guess what! you're still alive.
if she says NO and all yer friends clown you then you can at least have the satisfaction that you had the courage to ask her. and courage builds character. girls like characters with confidence. good looks, money, and popularity only come in 2nd. go in there full steam ahead and laugh at the fact that you may be rejected. now go make me proud!!