Girl Trouble :-( ...

soto

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just a couple months ago i hooked up w/ this girl at my house. so i wake up the next morning, roll over in bed, open my eyes, and there she is.....already staring at me. or i should say GAZING at me all googly eyed.
now that's just freaky. she was pretty hot too but that all went right out the window. don't rush love folks!!
 

yimmy

Active Member
That sucks...I just went through the same crap a month ago. This is what I did, it may or may not work for you but it did with me. I'm also a sophmore in HS. We broke up then she wanted to get back together, then i saw her cheating on someone...the person she was cheating with was a good friend of mine, socked him in the face, called her a "female dog". and went out of the room. She then called me and said what I did was hot and wanted to get back together. I didn't and for the last month shes still been buggin me about it. All i can say is stay away from her and she'll realize what u went through and then bam you've both learned a lesson
Hope it helps
 

engineer

Member
I would tell her to find the stingray that killed our beloved Steve and ride it off into the deep blue sea!!!!!!
 

soto

Member
Originally Posted by Yimmy
That sucks...I just went through the same crap a month ago. This is what I did, it may or may not work for you but it did with me. I'm also a sophmore in HS. We broke up then she wanted to get back together, then i saw her cheating on someone...the person she was cheating with was a good friend of mine, socked him in the face, called her a "female dog". and went out of the room. She then called me and said what I did was hot and wanted to get back together. I didn't and for the last month shes still been buggin me about it. All i can say is stay away from her and she'll realize what u went through and then bam you've both learned a lesson
Hope it helps
so lemme get this straight- she managed to take 2 good friends, {EDIT LANGUAGE} one of em off severely, get the other one's {EDIT LANGUAGE} kicked, turn em both into arch enemies, and then get aroused by the whole situation.....
sometimes i think girls feed off of drama in the same primal way that men feed off ---.
 

phixer

Active Member
Originally Posted by soto
lemme guess seth, you were a real nice guy to her. there's a very small number of girls you can be nice to. if a girl has any of the following items then you canNOT be a gentleman:
-bad or no relationship w/ father
-wears makeup every single time you see her
-prefers rap to any other style of music
-volatile mood swings
-has labled herself depressed or manic depressant
-isn't over issues with her ex
-gossips a lot about others
-says the words 'like', 'whatever', and 'anyways' way too much in her sentences
that doesn't mean you can NEVER be a gentleman to her. but you hafta make her earn it. in the meantime you must treat em like you don't need em, and do what your primal instincts tell you to do, otherwise you're gonna get whatchoo got.
i know, doesn't make sense. you'd think that if you'd show someone love, respect, & care that they'd do the same in return and not the OPPOSITE. well that's cause you're thinking like a man and men think with logic. women generally let their emotions do the thinking which is why we can never figure em out. so don't try to. you'll just get depressed n' bitter. do what i say brotha.
Very true! Ive found that relationships are a lot like tornados, in the beginning there is a lot of sucking and blowing going on but in the end you loose your house anyhow.
Get a truck, they are far more reliable, predictable and a nice one will attract new girlfriends.
 

imurnamine

Active Member
...Nice Dukes of Hazzard blonde joke, there.
Well. You'll live. It hurts, yeah, but... You'll have something good happen to you. When one door closes, two more open.
 

yimmy

Active Member
yeah...i decked the kid in the face once...he got backed up tackled him socked him a few times and left. I like the truck idea though, i would just ignore the chic and move on, trust me shell miss u
 

ryanhayes9

Active Member
Originally Posted by Phixer
Very true! Ive found that relationships are a lot like tornados, in the beginning there is a lot of sucking and blowing going on but in the end you loose your house anyhow.
Get a truck, they are far more reliable, predictable and a nice one will attract new girlfriends.
leave it to phixer to make me laugh after a long day at work
 

imurnamine

Active Member
Originally Posted by Phixer
Very true! Ive found that relationships are a lot like tornados, in the beginning there is a lot of sucking and blowing going on but in the end you loose your house anyhow.
Get a truck, they are far more reliable, predictable and a nice one will attract new girlfriends.

I sure hope that you're being sarcastic...
Any girl that dates a guy for his vehicle will only lead him back to his original girlfriend dysfunction.
 

37g joe

Member
Seth Your 16 right. Take this from a guy who wished he had not dated so many girls in high school. Put your focus on school and put it on developing your own character. If a relationship happens it happens but dont Search them out. I met my wife in high school she was my best freind and still is. I was dating all these different girls some of her friends even and did not even notice the love of my life. It created alot of problems. Sometimes you find love where you least expect it. Actually more like it finds you. Be respectful of the Girls you date but also be respectful to yourself. Treat them like you would want your sister or future daughters to be treated. Also when you do break up with a girl dont talk trash it wll show your character. I am now good friends with several of my x girlfriends even have them and their husbands over for dinner. gonto some of their weddings. For the guys who are jerks and break you up you might be suprised you could become friends with them. One of my best friends now broke me and this Girl up in high school. I despised him but He and I both have grown up and we are good friends now. What I am trying to say is things often turn out alot different than you expect. The only control you have is by your own actions of how you hndle it.
 

soto

Member
on the flip side though, seth, you did mention in that other thread that you're looking to pursue a carreer in sales. one of the BEST form of sales training is picking up on girls.
99% of the time i think it's lame to try to nab as many girls as possible. usually cause guys that do that are just tryin to look cool in front'v their friends. either that or they're just trying to fill some void that WON'T be filled by promiscuity. but this could be a different case.
i'll tell ya what seth, you'll learn 1000X more in the singles scene wrappin up females then any college will teach you about sales. ABC. Always Be Closing. ALWAYS!!
BE
CLOSING!
 

phixer

Active Member
Originally Posted by ImUrNamine
I sure hope that you're being sarcastic...
Any girl that dates a guy for his vehicle will only lead him back to his original girlfriend dysfunction.
Attracting women is a lot like fishing. Objects can be used in the same manner as fishing lures are used to catch fish, they work the same way because many women are materialistic and are attracted to looks and money often represented by shiny ornamental objects like jewelry or fancy cars or cosmetics or clothes or...take your pick.
A good way to impress your woman is with flowers, lots of em (another material lure). Just swing by the local cemetary on the way to see her and pick up a few dozen. A good reef is especially appreciated around the holiday season.
:hilarious now thats sarchasm.
Here is logic.
Listen to these guys Seth, do not get serious until you have secured your profession. And even then be very skeptical of any serious relationship. Your happiness or lack of it will depend on it. :hilarious And dont knock up anyone.
 

oceanists

Active Member
Seth hire a hitman!
Or buy a Lionfish and have her clean your tank.... tell her if he is going to attack just swat at him.
JJ
 
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