From all these posts, although a lot I am curious about, there are 2 posters in particular that I agree with...
SoCal, as mentioned, happiness comes from within. Not BF's or GF's, or jobs, or family or what you have, but it's in you and should radiate out to those things, not leach from them.
And of course Darth... I never know when the group hug begins either... I think it started to begin at the green grass thing, but you killed the moment, lol.
Jacknjill, you need space. Come to florida and I'll let you stay here with my crazy family. IDK you, but I think it would be beneficial to you to "just get away".
My best friend was in a "predicament" and I think just getting away and recalibrating her perspective on her life did wonders for her.