I cannot believe it has been 9 Years

meowzer

Moderator
TRUE...we have no choice but to go on....for our other children, grandchildren...etc....although as you said, the memories will be ours....I still wait for Anthony to walk thru the door....as if it was a nightmare....that's part of my "normal"
I keep him in my heart, as you keep yours in your hearts......I think of you and your wife, and feel your pain......as my own..... there will always be a piece of us missing
 

nw2salt08

Active Member
Your family and you are in my thoughts. I couldn't begin to imagine what that would be like. I lost a dear friend of mine three years ago that was murdered at his job. But it's different when it's your child. ~hugs~ Here's looking to brighter days and good memories.
 

groupergenius

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Man hugs to ya Henry.
I didn't know this about your son. Being a Father of 2 sons, I can't imagine....
As a really odd sidenote. In 1981 I was working for Pizza Hut. 2 weeks into it, a middle aged man "attempted" to rob the store. As a 17 yr old kid I thought he was FOS and I found out differrently the hard way. Shot thru my right hand and into my leg.
 

t316

Active Member
I have not forgotten Henry. I remember posting with you about this a year or two ago. Have you ever posted a pic of Justin? Not trying to make you re-live this event, but I'd like to see the kid. Reading the article again, that was one heck of a son, and I know you were proud of him. Like somebody said, I'm bitching at my 14 yr. old every day. But I will take this opportunity again to just give him a break, and say "I love you son".
 

todj2002

Member
spanko - very sorry for your loss. horrible.. i dont understand why people do so many horrible things in this world. i just dont get it. i have had my share of losses and it is always difficult, but now that im a father of two, my boy 5 and my girl eight, i could not imagine. i would be devastated as im sure anyone would. god bless.
 

spanko

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You are allowed to make an impact statement at the sentencing of murderers as the family of the murdered. For those that wish to read it, here is mine.
 

cranberry

Active Member
Reading the story, seeing the picture.... I have no words. Thank you for sharing this. I'll try to remember to never take one moment for granted. Henry, he's beautiful.
 

spanko

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My wife's impact statement at the sentencing of the two murderers.
Your hands and joint consent murdered our son and brother Justin. Norman Pelfrey, and Lee Pennington were murdered by your hands and joint consent. What did Justin, Norman and Lee say when pleading for their lives? Did you hear Justin, Norman and Lee and see their terror? Why didn’t you listen? Now we are asked to listen to your plea for your own lives?
We have been told that you can’t remember the night you murdered Justin. I remember it well. Henry drove 2 blocks from our house to Mancino’s about 11:30 PM, as Justin wasn’t home from work yet. There were police cars, crime scene tape in front of the store, police officers flashing spotlights on him questioning who he was. He was told there had been a robbery and to go to the police station; he was told there were 2 people working at Mancino’s when it was robbed, one was on a delivery and they thought one may be deceased. Justin’s dad called me crying to tell me. Henry went to the hospital alone and identified his own son Justin, with a bullet in his head. Justin and his dad had a special father-son bond. Justin had his dad’s wit, his thirst for knowledge and wanted to learn how to be a man from his dad. But now his son, Justin, was dead.
Your confessions stated you were checking into the Red Roof Inn in Roseville and ordered a pizza at this time.
Justin’s older sister Leah, whom you know, was just 18. She was living on her own with a girlfriend. Justin and his friend Ty stayed overnight at Leah’s one time; they were teenagers growing up, the normal stages of life. Then it was October 21, 2000. Justin’s dad and I agonized at the hospital whether or not to let Leah see Justin like this, how would we tell her? Leah drove back home with a friend at 1 or 2 AM, stood screaming in the driveway—”no, he is not dead”. Our lives were hell on earth in an instant, by the decision you each made. Leah and Justin, brother/sister, would never again talk, laugh, make jokes, or fight again. Only tears. Leah’s brother, Justin was dead.
I thought we needed to start making phone calls to tell family and friends that Justin was dead. We now had to speak the words “Justin was shot to death at work”. You gave is this new reality, our new life, our new “normal”. You have put us into living Hell on earth.
Our son, Trevor was 11 years old when you chose to murder his older brother, Justin. We woke him up at 3, 4 or 5 AM from a sound sleep. The house was full of people. He was sick to his stomach, laying on the hallway floor, not wanting to hear this or see anybody. Everybody wanted to comfort him, hug him. But his brother Justin was dead. Trevor and Justin had a special bond. Justin was Trevor’s older brother. He learned from him, shared a room with him, played sports with him.
There is no cure for your what you have done. Henry, Leah, Trevor and I each went into our own separate worlds; a division in our family that we are still trying to heal.
Who else had knowledge of what happened? Where did you get your drugs? We have heard about “Joe” from Algonac. Dennis Bryan, your parents told us on April 7, 2005 that you told them the other boys from this area were involved in the murder of Justin. Dennis Bryan, your mom called me as recently as October 2005 after you were brought back to MI saying you wanted to tell about all the others involved. Has she been making this up all these years? Baumann, your lie detector test was inconclusive when you were asked if you knew Daniels, Kaled and Kuecken. And we have 2 people who saw Kaled at a party down off Jefferson about 10:55 PM the night of October 21, a party he didn’t belong at. These people passed lie detector tests about their statements. You both repeatedly stated your innocence in Justin’s murder to the police. Then somehow you suddenly felt the need to do the right thing and confess just after the 3 moms from Michigan went down south and right before sentencing in VA?
 

spanko

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No trial, “no contest”, no answers.
I cannot imagine the terror of Justin’s last minutes. Justin had so much life ahead of him and was so full of life. Justin was gentle; Justin had so much enthusiasm; he was still delightful at 16/yrs/o. Justin was not with us for his aunt’s surprise 50th birthday party; Trevor’s 8th grade graduation, to celebrate his dad’s 50th birthday; his own 18th birthday; Leah’s 21st birthday; his grandparents 50th anniversary; Leah’s wedding; his own 21st birthday; our 30th wedding anniversary surprise party; Trevor’s 18th birthday. Justin won’t be there for Trevor’s high school graduation this year. He will never graduate from high school, never marry, never have his own family. Never will you know the magnitude of your actions.
You murdered my son, your evilness ripped a permanent hole in my heart. To me, life has a dulled appearance now. I will keep watch of your prison log to assure you are both jailed for life; as our lives have forever changed us by your murdering Justin.
With the free will given to you by God, you chose evil. So many lives were shattered by your senseless violence. Our journey will be forever without Justin. But your evil choices will not overrule the goodness of God in my life. We are all people of the same God. May you each find the peace God has for you.
 

spanko

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My impact statement at the sentencing.
The mind is an amazing thing. Most often it will take the easy way out, suppressing those things that are dangerous to us so we don't have to deal with them. I would submit to all of you in attendance today that the minds of these two men did just that on Wednesday February 15th 2006. Morally, having put themselves into the circumstances that they have found themselves in, admitting guilt for their own sake as well as the others they have drawn into their lives would seem to be the best course of action for the mental well being of all. Instead their minds and the minds of their attorneys sought the easy path by pleading no contest to the five counts brought against each of them for the murder of my son Justin Mello. Yes the easy path for them but not for the rest of us. -- No Contest
Baumann and Bryan, you have literally destroyed the lives of those we know you have murdered and we can only hope there are not more that we don't know of. Those that are gone are at peace. Those that remain have also had their lives destroyed but are not at peace and will have to live in the hell you have created for them for the rest of their lives. -- No Contest
Baumann and Bryan you have left your own families in turmoil and without their sons, even though you are still alive and somewhat accessible, where those you have murdered are only accessible through memory -- No Contest.
Baumann and Bryan you have taken an older brother from Trevor that he loved, respected, and relied upon to help him make it through childhood. You left him without that guidance he so deserved. You left him a broken child in a home that for some time lost all direction and capacity to function normally, -- No Contest.
Baumann you took from my daughter a younger brother that was becoming a true friend and confidant. A brother that she was helping to view life in a more adult way. The two of them were beginning to let the rest of us see that our time together was turning us into a family that could love and count on each other without question. A true family. Baumann you did this to my daughter, someone you knew. Someone you had a mutual acquaintance with, someone you had called a friend. – No Contest
Baumann and Bryan you will never know nor could you ever comprehend the devastation you caused to my beloved Denise. She lost her oldest son. Someone a mother has a special bond with. Someone that, while I was gone was the man of the house. Someone that had the responsibility, and the desire to show his mother that he could fulfill all that was expected of him. Denise knew that he had just turned 16 years old but still her undying love for him would let him believe that he was the man. As with any mother she lost a part of herself when she lost her son. – No Contest.
Baumann and Bryan you cannot know the pain that friends and neighbors and the entire community of New Baltimore experienced because of your decision to murder Justin. My most vivid memory in the days after Justin's murder are of Leah assembling a group discussion with young and old people that knew, knew off, or were interested in hearing about Justin. You probably knew some of these people. You probably called them friends at some time in high school. This discussion went on for hours and consisted of stories of memories that people had of Justin. The viewing at the funeral home went on for days. The funeral at St. Mary's church saw a church full to overflowing with people that came to show support for our family and to wish Justin a final good by. – No Contest
Bryan all of this did not seem to be enough for you. Your parents have told us a number of times that you were ready to tell the prosecutors here in Michigan the others that were arrested first were also part of the crime. We have always believed this to be true. However now I have to believe the prosecution when they say you are a murderer as well as a liar because you have elected not to go to trial, leaving this part of the story untold. – No Contest.
 

spanko

Active Member
Baumann and Bryan as for me you have taken a part of everything I hold dear away from me. You took my eldest son from me in a vicious cowardly way. You had him kneel down and then you shot him in the back of the head. A horrible, criminal, cowardly, vicious and inhuman act to obtain a few hundred dollars to feed your drug habit and cross country murder spree. I often wonder what he said or did to deserve that kind of treatment from you. I also wonder whether he cried, or called for his mother or father, or if he just did as told to avoid being hurt. I will never know, and I guess it doesn’t matter because you killed him anyway. You took part of my wife, my daughter, and my remaining son away from me and they will never be the same. You have taken away part of me that is lost forever. You couldn’t even stand before us and plead guilty, even after confessing to the murder. I believe that the honorable judge Druzinski will impose punishment that the state sees fit for you. You will already serve every minute of the rest of your lives in jail. I will not allow you to take anything else from me. I will not hate you nor forgive you because you mean nothing to me, you are already dead, and you just haven’t lain down yet. – Guilty
To our friends and family I believe that the essence that was Justin now exists on some other plane. I will quote to you from the Bhagavad Gita, the holy Hindu text that had inspired Thoreau and Ghandi:
“Death is certain for anyone born, and birth is certain for the dead; since the cycle is inevitable, you have no cause to grieve”.
For the family and friends of Justin remember the times with Justin that made you happy, and remember the times you gave to Justin that made him happy.
To Justin I hope you had the time of your life.
 
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