Mother also said...don't get married...look both ways before crossing a street...don't talk with strangers...buckle up...etc, etc...
Most haven't heeded dear ole ma's advice with those so why would speaking your piece be different?
Wow...Tasha...instead of contributing to the silliness as often times is displayed through mediums such as these...ignore their posts as well...read them..laugh at them...press on...
New person...I guess you never experienced fidonet in its beginning...there are not that many problems as mentioned...disagreements do occur and will continue to occur as sure as the Sun will shine tomorrow (somewhere). Ask your questions, seek advice, accept whatever advice you feel confortable with, and read, read, and read some more.
The educational value here far outweighs the entertainment value...enjoy