Originally posted by ThisisTodd
but come on...do you even want to see a sweaty guy in a bikini? most women will admit they would rather see a girl in a bikini than a guy in a .....speedo?
like elaine from seinfeld says...women are a beautiful work of art, men are so...utilitarian
Sorry, gotta disagree. I would much prefer a sweaty guy in a bikini...provided that he looks like Johnny Depp and not George Costanza! :yes: Seriously, I love the male body. Some women are just afraid to admit that they do too.
Back on topic.....my most expensive losses were many years ago when I had my first couple of tanks. Did everything all wrong! I put a big, georgeous Naso Tang in a 55 and lost it, I'm sure, because of stress due to the fact that I crammed him in far too small a tank. :scared: I can't remember what I paid for him, but I remember it was a lot. He died in under a week.
So, thinking that the problem was just that the tank was too small or the fish was sick from the beginning, I set up a new tank a few years later. The 2nd tank I set up was a 150H, and eventually I put an adult gray angel in it. The tank was still fairly new, I used tap water (bad quality to boot) and I faithfully ran UG filters because my LFS told me it was the way to go. Poor guy didn't last a month. I think I gave $150 for him, or something like that.
There were other casualties here and there that added up to a lot. I had the big tank, but I cut corners on the cost of filtration equipment. Let that be a lesson...
I was so turned off by the whole thing that I sold the tank and didn't get another for 10 years. This time I think I did it right. I realize that there are just some fish that are risky to keep so I don't even try because I understand that I just may not have the resources for them, and I stick to fish I am sure I can keep successfully.
Moral of the story: don't always listen to Joe Blow at the LFS. I learned the hard way. He may be as uninformed as the next guy!
Good thing I found this site!!