Mimzy - Yes, I do reach into the tank, but I've been trying to do it infrequently as possible so I don't scare Owen until he really settles in and starts to recognize me. So far, just for his first water change, some algae scrubbing (getting a magnafloat soon), and to put his food tub in. I don't plan to try to let him crawl in my hand. I read that they are actually very fragile and could get hurt pretty easily.
Style23 - I was actually pretty worried about the strainer at first. I was planning to put some type of screening (maybe a breeder net) over it if it needed to be covered. Owen arrived a little bigger than I thought he might and he has actually spent time all around the intake to explore it with no apparent harm. Lucky me, I just get to leave it alone.
suzi1780 - I had the same reaction the first time I saw that video. Cool, huh! For that reason I named the damsel Skittles. I want to keep him around, but fear that once Owen gets bigger he might be a colorful and appetizing snack.
Thank you all for the positive feedback! My wife was nice enough to let me get my octo, but she is still creeped out by it. Its nice to share my fun and excitement with those who appreciate what a true beauty an octopus is. :cheer: