Nathan don't be discouraged by how people react to your questions. Keep in mind a lot of the frequent posters at SWF.com deal with these questions on a daily basis. No joke, its always the same questions over and over again - look at the first two pages of this forum and i bet 40% of the questions are related. The issue isn't you, the issue is at some point you get tired of people not researching. Again this isn't your fault, it is just the impatients of others (myself included so don't get pissy guys
) because we deal with these same questions and mistakes all the time.
Just keep asking questions and slow down. Keep asking us questions, but only on one post. That is the other thing, only do one post at a time, because you end up getting answers from 5 different directions.
Read and ask questions, thats all you can do - oh and don't buy anything for your tank for a while