i get a lot of info from this site... but i gotta say, the only thing i hate about it, is how people freak out over small things, i'd bet you everything i own that the guy i was talking to wasn't offended, i'm sure he was not HONESTLY offended, just in disagreement with me.
and Catawaba, where is this ignore button?... just curious..
and Brandan... yes i do remember that from third grade, that along with "the golden rule", treat others as you wish to be treated, and i'd be fine if people yelled at me for big mistakes, if it was said lightly, and nicely, honestly it wouldn't get across as good to me.
think about it, if you put a blue hippo in a 20 gallon, and didn't know the diff. and i said, "you might want to take it out", it wouldn't really get across to you, because it sounds more like an unneeded suggestion, but if i said "Get the hippo out before it dies!", my guess is you'd listen, and my point would get across and the fish would live, and the hobbyist wouldn't have a bad first experience with a dead expensive fish.