Originally Posted by Phixer
First off. I always like talking with you because you are a logical thinker and like PJ.
The most important of human traits are the ones that cannot be seen even under a microscope. Mercy, Compassion, Care, Wisdom ... you get the drift. These traits that make us human are all stopped by an abortion.
"Whats worse.....aborting the pregancy of an unwanted child or abusing an unwanted child."
Many kids go unwanted by irresponsible biological parents but with the number of people in the world waiting to adopt children fewer would go unwanted at all. An abused child is alive and can be placed into a loving environment where they can heal and eventually be glad to be alive.
An aborted one cannot.
thanks, I've always enjoyed talking with you as well .
but the human traits you mentioned like mercy, compassion, care, wisdom, etc. those are traits that I don't see present in a fetus that is a couple months old.
and yes, there are plenty of people that want to adopt children. but from the way I understand it, putting a child up for adoption is just as hard a decision than having an abortion, if not worse. for one thing, the mother carries the child around for over 9 months so there is a natural bond and many mothers decide against adoption or have a hard time with even though they know in their hearts that they may not be fit parents. then there's the stigma and the trouble that many adopted children have. and the regrets that both mother and child have to deal with over the years and wondering how things may have ended up different, etc etc. not saying that adoption isn't a great thing for parents that can't have babies or for giving children better lives. I'm just saying that adoption is not always a happy ending for all concerned either.
my whole feeling about it is just that it's really not my business or my place to try to mandate what some female that I'll never meet does with her own life. like I said, I would never want a wife or girlfriend of mine to have an abortion. and I think it's a sad alternative. but I just don't think it's my business to control somebody else's life when it comes to pregnancy and parenthood. even if my religious beliefs told me that abortion is the ultimate sin, I still feel that it's the individual's God given right to choose their own path. Afterall, God IS the final judge, not man. we can have normal laws against murder, assault, burglary, etc etc etc. but those are things that affect us all. some stranger getting an abortion is not something that affects me.