My mother is more than comfortable where she is. When her mind was with her, she was adamant to tell all of us that she would never want to be burdened with someone taking care of her in their home. My older brother asked her to come stay with him, and she flatly refused.
You live in the self-righteous fantasy world where you take the simplistic approach to life. "Don't like your taxes? Don't like some of the laws in your city or state? Just move." Yea, that's sounds REAL easy to you. Let's throw a $350,000 home on the market in an environment where houses are sitting empty for months at a time. Let's just do away with our careers. There's always Burger King. Kids rooted into their school's and social life? Who cares. Now I'm supposed to stop working and take care of my elderly mother because "That's the right thing to do." Sorry, but that's not how life works these days. This isn't the 50's or 60's any longer where you can live off of one income, unless you don't want your kids to go college, r you on't want to have the nicer things in life. That's why you become successful, so you can have anything you want withinh reason. My parents taught me to be self sufficient. They taught me that because that's how they were brought up. You don't want to be put in a home and have to worry about someone taking care of you? Save up enough money and insure you can afford to have home health care until you finally kick off and die. Don't expect your kids to throw away their life savings just to pamper you when you're unable to take care of yourself.
Yes, become succesful to do those things. As you stated, self sufficient. Yet YOU feel the government should be involved with lives and care. Is that self sufficient? Kids can work their way through college......families can care for their own. No one WANTS 5go be a burden. But sometimes families need to shoulder the load for each other. You call my view simple. Yet my views have allowed me to make two successfull businesses. One started in this crap economy......
See you find excuses and fault for everything. But honestly, it doesn't matter what party is in office, what laws are passed, what wars are fought...family is the structure the perceivers through it all. Family takes care of each other instead of relying on others. Family gets you through.
There is a family member that was addicted to meth. Her children were cared for by family during this time. Not the state, not medicaid, not the fed. Family services was not called to care for them. Mom is now better and free of the addiction...the child is growing into a fine boy...he has not seen his real father since he was Two. He is now in middle school. He has no mental problems.......I and his grandfather are his male role models. As well as his 2nd cousin. Instead of relying on others the family unit did what it was suppossed to do, sacrifice for the well being of a family member. My grandmother in law lived with my in laws the last 20 years of her long life. Not because she needed the medical care...but because she started having rough times and it was better for all. No retirement home, family. Would you live with your mother in law for 20 years?
This is th single biggest issue and why our country is so screwed up....the family structure is broken...and I am not just meaning the immediate family...the extended family as well.
I would sell my businesses at a loss as well as my house to ensure my family was together and cared for. And not rely on state to do this...or the fed..........but that is just me....
Yes I am simple.
The first rule in business is keep it simple stupid. Life is the same way. Ghe simpler it is...the less problems you have.
B ut disregard my point of view....call me simple and outdated. Simple fact is...it has worked for centuries....while governments and policies...change as often as my depends will when I contract alzheimers.