Dan:
I'm in total disbelief. I have 4 tanks set up (freshwater) and I am always on the net researching when I'm ready to buy more fish. I'm in this forum because when I do start my saltwater, I want the advice of those who have them and who have experience, (along with professional advice). I know you mentioned that everyone is focusing on the overcrowding, but that is what your tank's main problem is.
Also, in a freshwater tank, it is 1 inch of fish for every gallon. However saltwater is different. Like mentioned before, 1 inch of fish for every 5 gallons.
PLEASE remember this, not only do you want to protect your fish because they are costly, but more importantly, they are living beings that need taken care of and made as comfortable as possible in an artificial environment.
I know I'm a little late chiming in, but I hope this helps. In this hobby, how every fish feels is very important.:nervous: