I started a 38g FO tank three years ago and did absolutely everything wrong. If it was wrong, I did it. I didn't know about what to do about cycling. I bought yellow tangs (3), and a mandarin, and 3 clownfish, a couple of big, nasty crabs and yellowtail blue damsels. The tangs stressed everybody and the damsels picked
on the survivors. The tangs went down the toilet along with the damsels. One clownfish survived but I felt sorry for him and gave him to a good home. I dumped everything I had except for the tank. Well, now 3 years later, I've either gotten smarter or forgotten all the previous grief, because I have a 15g tank started. I'm trying to go slow but it's killing me.
I just found this board a couple of days ago and have been reading every post until my eyes are bleeding.
I just want to personally thank every here for caring enough about the livestock, hobby and people like me by sharing your incredible knowledge.
Judy