What's up y'all??? My story...

rebelprettyboy

rebelprettyboy

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Dang Crimz. Sorry about that.
---- I been going through the same thing as well. Granted i wasnt married and didnt have kids.
GF of 4 yrs was cheating on me, not really cheating considered herself in a full relationship of about 5 months.
With who you ask. My Cousin. So yeah I havent been around since march.
Take it easy!
 
crimzy

crimzy

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Originally Posted by rebelprettyboy
http:///forum/post/3067554
Dang Crimz. Sorry about that.
---- I been going through the same thing as well. Granted i wasnt married and didnt have kids.
GF of 4 yrs was cheating on me, not really cheating considered herself in a full relationship of about 5 months.
With who you ask. My Cousin. So yeah I havent been around since march.
Take it easy!
Rebel... that's tough. Even though she wasn't your wife, your situation in some ways is tougher than mine because she's with your cousin.
At least I don't have to see my wife with this guy...
As an update, it appears that wife and I have pretty much agreed to the terms of our deal. It's kind of strange that this whole thing started with love, marriage, etc and ends like a business transaction. But anyway, we will take a couple of days to each mull it over and if we still agree, then I will hire an attorney to draft the documents. It's very important to me to have a separate, independant attorney draft the documents so that she can never come back and claim that I took advantage of her or hid language because I drafted the paperwork.
Hopefully this continues to go smooth. I just want out...
 
jdl

jdl

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Originally Posted by crimzy
http:///forum/post/3067595
Rebel... that's tough. Even though she wasn't your wife, your situation in some ways is tougher than mine because she's with your cousin.
At least I don't have to see my wife with this guy...
As an update, it appears that wife and I have pretty much agreed to the terms of our deal. It's kind of strange that this whole thing started with love, marriage, etc and ends like a business transaction. But anyway, we will take a couple of days to each mull it over and if we still agree, then I will hire an attorney to draft the documents. It's very important to me to have a separate, independant attorney draft the documents so that she can never come back and claim that I took advantage of her or hid language because I drafted the paperwork.
Hopefully this continues to go smooth. I just want out...
seeing the ex with the guy isnt a bad thing. This same thing happened to me. After a few weeks, i hugged the guy and told him thanks. He sure gave me a strange look. Remember she will be someone elses problem now.
Through this you will hopefully find yourself. Realize you dont need someone else in your life to make you happy. Then when you do find someone else it will be so much better then before because you are a better, happier person.
Marriage and divorce are business relationships (just look at the clintons... this is great i get to bash hillary in this thread). And they are bad business deals for most people. Love is truely blind.
 
reefraff

reefraff

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Originally Posted by crimzy
http:///forum/post/3067595
Rebel... that's tough. Even though she wasn't your wife, your situation in some ways is tougher than mine because she's with your cousin.
At least I don't have to see my wife with this guy...
As an update, it appears that wife and I have pretty much agreed to the terms of our deal. It's kind of strange that this whole thing started with love, marriage, etc and ends like a business transaction. But anyway, we will take a couple of days to each mull it over and if we still agree, then I will hire an attorney to draft the documents. It's very important to me to have a separate, independant attorney draft the documents so that she can never come back and claim that I took advantage of her or hid language because I drafted the paperwork.
Hopefully this continues to go smooth. I just want out...
Wow, moving at light speed. Congrats.
 
al mc

al mc

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I hope things continue to go that smoothly. I admit, I am shocked, but happy for you and the girls.
 
reefraff

reefraff

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Originally Posted by crimzy
http:///forum/post/3067700
On a side note... they boys want to throw me a bachelor party...

Hire good strippers and send your ex wife a copy of the video

In my case I went out and bought a brand new fully loaded truck. The main motivation was I needed a truck instead of the Ford Festiva I was using for work. I just didn't need a top of the line truck. I went to her apartment to get her signature on the summary dissolution papers (less than 5 years of marriage and no kids you can roll your own in Cal). After she signed I told her boy to follow me out and I would give him some change I had in the truck for spending money. I did give the little turd enough change to fill up both front pockets to the point he had to hold up his pants. Anyway the ex came out and saw the truck, fell back against the side of the carport, looked down and said "well, we are happier aren't we"? I said "I am, I got a new truck!!!". That went over like a lead balloon.
 
jmick

jmick

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Originally Posted by crimzy
http:///forum/post/3067700
On a side note... they boys want to throw me a bachelor party...

Shame you're in Detroit, if you were in Chicago I'd join you! Alcohol, women and debauchery = good times!
Glad to hear that the two of you have been able to work out the terms of your divorce. We are working that now and thankfully,we have both agreed that we don't want lawyers to dictate the process and we want to do what's best for the kids. I suspect we will use my lawyer to draw up the papers and possibly use a mediator to help hammer out some of the details so everyone is happy. Then again, the pragmatic part of me doubts it will go as smooth as we have agreed.
 
t316

t316

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How are you doing Crimzy? Been out in the jungle for quite awhile and I don't see any status updates. Hope all is well...%%
 
crimzy

crimzy

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Originally Posted by T316
http:///forum/post/3079123
How are you doing Crimzy? Been out in the jungle for quite awile and I don't see any status updates. Hope all is well...%%
Doing OK.. most days I'm doing great but there are some setbacks along the way. I've found out about a few things that she's pulled with money and the kids, but whatever...
Divorce should be final in about a month.
BTW, I'm changing my name to Deuce Bigelow... having some fun.

Thanks for asking...
 
ruaround

ruaround

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Originally Posted by crimzy
http:///forum/post/3079412
Doing OK.. most days I'm doing great but there are some setbacks along the way. I've found out about a few things that she's pulled with money and the kids, but whatever...
Divorce should be final in about a month.
BTW, I'm changing my name to Deuce Bigelow... having some fun.

Thanks for asking...
youre asking the cute girl at the LFS to get the snails out of the bottom of the 50 gal tall so you can sneak a peak???
 
darthtang aw

darthtang aw

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Originally Posted by ruaround
http:///forum/post/3079519
youre asking the cute girl at the LFS to get the snails out of the bottom of the 50 gal tall so you can sneak a peak???
No, I figured he was taking out the chick with narcolepsy, this way he can't bore her to death and he doesn't have to talk.........
 
crimzy

crimzy

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Originally Posted by Darthtang AW
http:///forum/post/3079616
No, I figured he was taking out the chick with narcolepsy, this way he can't bore her to death and he doesn't have to talk.........
I'm kind of partial to the chick with terrets... I like a girl with a vivacious personality!!
 
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