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SCSInet http:///forum/thread/379729/who-likes-cell-phones#post_3301568
I loathe the cell phone. It is one of the major banes of my life.
My iPhone comes in handy for a lot of the other things it does, GPS, games, portable video, etc. However it's the impact to society in general that irritates me to no end about them.
It used to be that I enjoyed having it, it was nice to have the convenience of reaching anyone or anyone reaching me - of course, that was before everybody had them. Unfortunately, nowadays, EVERYONE reaches me, and expects me to be there to answer it. My phone is paid for by my company, so I have my company email on it as well. People expect me to respond more-or-less immediately to every call, every email. Voicemail is not an option. Not responding promptly to all emails is not an option. Turning it off while in a movie theater is a chore to plan. I have a boss now that is much more understanding than the previous ones, who had no qualms about calling at 1:30AM.
It's not just my company though... friends and relatives, they call, and if I don't pick up, they want to know why not - often, I get flat out accused of "ignoring" them. I hate having to listen to other people talk on their phones in restaraunts. I hate the way people drive because they are on their phone. I hate how seldom I can have a conversation with someone without the phone ringing or email dinging. It cannot be ignored, the conversation stops while the phone gets the attention. I hate sitting in the car with someone while they carry on a phone conversation for the entire time. I hate people's stupid ring-tones. I hate texting - I have it blocked on my account, and when people find out that they can't text me, it's as if I threatened one of their kids.
I hate that our lives have become so connected that everyone expects everyone to be reachable at any time.
I seriously need to move to a shack in the woods where I can publish my anti-technology manifesto in peace.
Hi,
Poor thing, I can't imagine having to answer the phone. I don't, and those who know me just accept the fact that I seldom bother to answer or check messages until 1:30 am because of my work schedule (night shift) Believe me they don't want a call back at MY hours.
I know there are those who must have one for work, and I can't even imagine how invasive that would be. I also must agree about the restaurants, and people driving. However I get up and leave if someone considers the phone more company than me...it works every time to get a point across. Most quickly make a reply that they will have to get back to them, they have company.
I am of the older generation and I demand respect and give it to others. My oldest granddaughter, who LOVES her phone does not brush off Nana to talk or text. The only person who ever tried to text and hold a conversation with me was a temp at work…how rude. I just walked away and let him chase me down for instructions on what to do.