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    who would divorce?

    Really wouldnt be alimony.she makes as much as me .she has a crap job but i own a construction company and do mostly homeowner work.not much on the books.i have decided yesterday after the last talk i wont be a p.o.s. ranch hand here.after this talk it isnt going to change.who would just keep...
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    who would divorce?

    Well had a talk yesterday. This about sums it up.i said i have been killing myself to get this horse barn done the last few weeks.she actually said this.well it should have been done a year ago.at that point i just shut up and made up with her kinda.only to keep peace.i cant just move out i need...
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    who would divorce?

    Thats just it.we had a talk in January. About to call it quits then.for some reason she thinks i will leave and she will stay here and go on with the animals.i have put thousands of hours of work and alot of money in this property. I aint just walking away.we owe maybe 40k on the land and it...
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    who would divorce?

    Thanks flower.it a weird thing.my wife isnt lazy.she takes.care of the horses like crazy.i am thinking because she knows i wont but i will for the pigs and birds.she still isnt home yet its 5pm and i didnt feed the birds.i have built so much here.a 1100 sq ft horse barn.5 coops.a ton of fence...
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    who would divorce?

    Well.been trying to hang in there and it isnt any better.i brought up the i feed the animals thing.she fed them 3 days in a row now for the last 7 days again its been me.now this morning she went with a friend to a junk sale with her friend.over 2 hr ride each way.i am not feeding the animals...
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    Help. Tank lighting

    Really all i can help . with . kinda breaking the rules.here posting competition site.
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    Help. Tank lighting

    Lol.i am seriously computer illiterate. Lucky i can post here and find things on google.just google ebay stores.punch in 24 inch metal halide .it should come up.
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    Help. Tank lighting

    I went to where i posted and found a 24 inch fixture with a 250 metal halide with 4 t5 lights and moonlights for 140 dollars free shipping.same brand i had .like i said it worked great for at least 3 yrs.
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    Help. Tank lighting

    Look on ebay stores. NOt the top of the line lights but i have a 3 250watt bulb system from there that lasted a few years.cheap
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    Help. Tank lighting

    I would just put a 250watt halide like bang said.then again i dont know much about the new leds everyone is bragging about
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    Has anybody heard from.........?

    Lois is all over Facebook. Yea i miss florida joe we both had mantis shrimp going for a while.if you want pm me and i can get you with lois on facebook.she is into crossfitness now.she looks great.as for joe i have no idea.i was away from here for a couple years also.
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    I'm a noob. Can't wait to learn!

    Welcome . hopefully flower will help you on the horses.she kept them for years.
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    Seeding Coralline algae: Do I just scrape this off

    Someone needs to make a thread about water from a cycled tank dont contain next to no bacteria. It lives on hard surfaces.
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    who would divorce?

    Dont think it hasn't crossed my mind.
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    It's finally time...

    Oops.just looked at the pic again might be the sand being cloudy.i like to run a sock on a tank for a couple days changing it a few time to speed up the cloud
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    It's finally time...

    Nice set up.i dont like to mix the water and salt in the display. It will.settle in the rock plus get a film you have to keep.scraping off the glass.i wouldnt do the ray he will out grow that tank.we had a couple people here that had one and had to get rid of them.they also had 225 gallon...
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    CLOWNFISH NOT EATING

    I think connoror might be right.what kind of flow is in the tank? I had an Achilles tang do that in a qt.i put him in the display and after a couple hours he was fine.
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    who would divorce?

    We had this talk back in January. It went better until a few weeks ago i realized i have been doing alot more and her alot less.flower i do not want her to suffer but the reality is if i leave .we sell our property.she cant afford animals and a place to live.i would feel bad about that but at...
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    who would divorce?

    In the great words of ron white i would be gay if it weren't for the sex lol
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    Nitrate levels

    In my opinion 20 is next to nothing. You will drive yourself nuts trying to get it to zero.20 to me wont bother a thing.now 60 or above i would start doing something about it.i have had levels at 80 and didnt see anything being stressed.its the other 2 ammonia and nitrites that
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