OK Jer, I gotta stop you, or slow you down rather... Lemme be honest with you here, if your going to be a pastor you really need to hone your people skills. Tangman said he doesn't give to churches because he believes most of them to be ill intentioned. A better response would have been something like, what the church does with the money is not our concern. We give as a way of saying thanks for our blessings and once it's out of our hands we put it in God's hands. What different "religions" believe is not our concern. Our relationship with God whether it involves money or not is OUR relationship. We should go to church to worship, praise, give thanks and if you have something in common with the people around you, great but if not then remember they are not the reason you go to begin with.
He also said he "doesn't believe in 'religion'", a statement I believe you can understand. Religion is a tradition. It's a customary justification that we are raised with but half of us don't understand, therefore deeming it about as insincere as one can get.
I give (or rather we give) 10% to not a church, but a christian radio station, since we are not members of a church. But once the check is in the mail, my part is done. Not my part as in my obligated part, but my part as in, I said thanks, that's it. Where it goes after it leaves my mailbox is not something I worry about. If it's being illused, it doesn't change why I gave it and the fact that I gave it. OK, that's just me.
I am very recently a christian so I remember what I thought when people would try to tell me what I had to do, what I had to change, I was goin' to hell, etc etc... Makes me kinda nauseaus how the actual christians are the ones who push everybody else away... I am hoping to not be like that. I am trying to remember my thought process not to long ago...