ezee
Member
All,
I usually don't say anything about these threads but I thought I might make an observation. There is a difference between helping and moral/social pressure being put on someone. It doesn't take that much pressure for folks to start behaving defensively, and once that happens they are not going to listen to anything you say. Then you are not really accomplishing anything anymore. There seems to be a lot of that.
I for one appreciate every shred of help that has been thrown my way on this site (I have been researching for over a year) but I think sometimes a different approach may be more effective and actually save more fishie lives.
Nok, I really like your creativity! You should at least consider what people are saying but, of course, make the decision that makes the most sense to you.
Just a thought.
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I usually don't say anything about these threads but I thought I might make an observation. There is a difference between helping and moral/social pressure being put on someone. It doesn't take that much pressure for folks to start behaving defensively, and once that happens they are not going to listen to anything you say. Then you are not really accomplishing anything anymore. There seems to be a lot of that.
I for one appreciate every shred of help that has been thrown my way on this site (I have been researching for over a year) but I think sometimes a different approach may be more effective and actually save more fishie lives.
Nok, I really like your creativity! You should at least consider what people are saying but, of course, make the decision that makes the most sense to you.
Just a thought.
E