Originally Posted by
ophiura
While this thread
could put people off, I also think there is value in it.
Because often these questions just go unanswered.
Or they are answered in a abrupt/nasty way.
It helps new folks to understand why they may not get answers. It helps to avoid some of the pitfalls.
I think if you are reading this, and are hesitant to ask, don't be. But know a bit more about how to phrase thigns. About what people expect to have as information. About why you may not get answers.
This sort of issue has been addressed several different ways. From things that keep you from anwering to what annoys you to this. It is valuable if not taken personally. Take it as information, like anything else, and phrase your questions accordingly.
But knowing what people find annoying is often a valuable way to get the information you actually want. Several people in this thread have given important pointers on GOOD ways to ask a basic question, and POOR ways to ask that same question.
It is not necessarily about driving people away.
Don't be hesitant to ask, just be smart in how you ask it
How about...Why was my thread/post deleted?
:hilarious