Burrito,
Ive read the entire thread..... and I'm getting something out of it that seems to be pretty consistant............
Turn the elbow UP!
Just reach over there right now and turn the elbow so its facing upwards. it is not hard, you do not need your dad, dare i say you don't even need to let your dad know what you've done, just reach over there and turn in so it looks like meowzers in her pictures she posted.
Until you do that we really can't help you further.