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SnakeBlitz33 http:///t/391428/novahobbies-official-110g-rebuild-thread/420#post_3489511
lol...
Yeah, if I get cash for a present, it goes to paying bills or food. My family knows that if they want to get me a real gift, they have to get me a gift card from that specific store.
I'm glad you have your little hobbies to keep you occupied. I wish I had more money for mine. But, that will come with time, I suppose.
Dude, true dat. I've been in that boat before, and I'm sure I will again. Plus Michelle and I don't have kids. We do have student loans, though, so....
Right now whatever is leftover after bills goes right into savings to rebuild that acount, and we give ourselves "allowances" of $50-ish per week to cover things like meals out, makeup (hers, not mine, lol) fish stuff, etc. I've been using mine for the aquariums stand and home repair stuff, that sort of thing. The savings took a huge hit when we bought the house, and all the "little things" that go into repairing a fixer-upper short sale definitely add up.
But....and this is just a lesson I've learned...it's always good to deliberately budget a little "fun money" into the bills for your personal sanity and well-being. Decide what sort of thing makes you happiest; be it woodworking projects, aquarium supplies, buying the wife presents, what have you, and budget yourself a little cash every week to use to that end. Even if it's $10 bucks a week. You treat it like a separate savings account, one that's just for your hobby or project, and you use it for that purpose alone. I call it an allowance because it's just like the allowance you got as a kid. Believe me, there are paychecks when we cut our allowances way back, because savings and bills have to take precedence, but we still make sure that we give ourselves a LITTLE fun money each week. Trust me, it's worth it.
On a different note...battening down the hatches down here. Gonna get a little of this storm after all, I"m afraid.