Right or Not ???

watson3

Active Member

Originally Posted by ol'salty
The other thing is not the statement that even the clump of cells is alive. Yes it is, but so is your thumb or finger. If you were to accidently
cut it off, should that be murder. You killed those cells...

This word makes all the difference..You cannot accidentally have an abortion..It is pre-meditated murder
 

bayside

Member
just to let you all know i am enjoying reading this thread.
as a guy i dont really think i have the right to tell a women what she is to do with her body. if she is at the point in her life where she is unable to care for a baby or the whole pregnancy process why should she have to go through with it being what doctors can do? yes i know this in no way what so ever should be considered a birth control and maybe there could be some sort of law considering this if a women as a certain amount of abortions or what have you. but i believe there shouldnt be a law that says a women MUST go through with her pregnancy when she might not have the means to do it.
i get the fact that no one can for sure say when life actually starts and considering this why are people saying we can not deprieve the world of a life? how many people do you want in this world and how much more in taxes are you willing to pay for welfare if we force people to have their children?
as stated before i am pro-choice
 

phixer

Active Member
Originally Posted by Pontius
because at one point, a clump DOES become a human life. just not at the point of conception.
So by getting rid of the clump we would be getting rid of a human life since the clump eventually becomes a human life.
 

watson3

Active Member
Originally Posted by Phixer
So by getting rid of the clump we would be getting rid of a human life since the clump eventually becomes a human life.
Priceless...
 

30-xtra high

Active Member
thats stupid... thats like saying if you kill a sperm thats killing a baby...
and the whole "its a baby when it can survive on its own" doesn't work at all..., if you were 4 and thrown out on the street you'd die... does that mean you weren't born?
i hate the arguements on this thread because they are often completely irrelevant.
 

watson3

Active Member
Originally Posted by 30-xtra high
i hate the arguements on this thread because they are often completely irrelevant.
 

teresaq

Active Member
Originally Posted by team2jndd
I didnt want to read all the pages so im probably repeating the same points as others so sorry for that. With that said, hundreds of thousands of babies in this country go unadopted so putting a child up for adoption in my opinion is just as bad. When people go to adopt a child they look at the background of the child. I know its sad to think this way but a child who comes from a single mother and is a product of ---- and or drug/alchohol use will be less likely to be adopted. Not to mention that it seems to have gone out of style to adopt american children.
I guess you have not done a lot of research on adoptin in america. I'd like to know where these thousands of babies are so i can tell all my friends that are waiting to adopt. People wait yrs on waiting lists for babies. I waited two my self, my friend waited almost 5. Being an adoptive mother and foster mother I know of no babies that once they are put up for adoption they arent placed right away. The exception is a severly handycapped child. They may wait a little longer but they too find a loving home. All three of my adopted children were born to single mothers, and two were from a mother that took drugs. It made no differance to us or to a lot of adoptive parents. almost all babies put up for adoption are from single mothers.
 

phixer

Active Member
Originally Posted by ol'salty
The only thing wrong with the "chance of life" arguement is the fact that it might not have a chance of life. The baby could die on it's own before it's born or even after. That baby might have never had a chance at a life.
I'll throw a couple of things out there for this discussion. If you weren't trying to get preg. and your wife was taking depovera, and it somehow let her get preg., what would you do? It is almost a 99% chance that the baby will be physically and mentally hadicapped and only live about a year. Now, would you have the baby or abort? The thing about this issue is if you weren't on the depo, the child would have possibly had a chance to have a life. So in a way, you have some of the blame on you...
The other thing is not the statement that even the clump of cells is alive. Yes it is, but so is your thumb or finger. If you were to accidently cut it off, should that be murder. You killed those cells...
I believe that life should be considered when the life sustaining organs all start working. (minus lungs maybe) In other words, i think life begins when the baby's organs start working on thier own. Think of it in reverse, it one of those organs stopped, that would be when life ends.
I am pro-choice, but i don't believe in abortions for birth control. I think for health reasons(mother or baby) , and ---- should be the only reasons, but it should be up to the parents...notice i said parents. What would you do if you wanted a baby (the man) and your wife or girlfriend didn't. The bad thing is the way it is right now(legally) , i don't think there is anything the father can do to stop it if the mother wants it done.
I haven't read all of the posts yet, so if i repeated something, sorry.

Just clump of tissue? This is what really happens, can you handle it?
*sorry but these pictures were a bit to graphic so the link was edited out!! **
I would have the baby because the problem was not created by the baby, to me it makes no sense to kill a baby because the parents were irresponsible. Abstenence is the only contraception with a 100% success rate. If you want to play you should be willing to accept the responsibility.
Using the analogy of the thumb as a clump of cell tissue and being alive isnt the same because the thumb is a tool and will never have the potential to develop into a human being. The thumb cannot make choices, it cannot think, care, hope, love or calculate. By removing your thumb you do not cease to exist as a human bieng. The thumb will always only be a tool. If the definition of a human being is defined as a thumb, finger or just clump of cells then we have reduced human life to nothing more than a mechanical element. If we are only mechanical elements then why do we have relationships. This is what makes us human, thumbs dont fall into this catagory IMO.
Abortion is a easy way out and stops all of this.
Life sustaining organs will always cease to exist when an abortion is performed. When someone goes into a coma, or becomes paralyzed you dont kill them (well maybe if your Terry schiavo but thats another thread) why, they then become a clump of cell tissue? Each person should choose their own destiny. Not some snob with a six figure income and a vacum cleaner.
Real men dont kill their children.
 

phixer

Active Member
Originally Posted by 30-xtra high
thats stupid... thats like saying if you kill a sperm thats killing a baby...
and the whole "its a baby when it can survive on its own" doesn't work at all..., if you were 4 and thrown out on the street you'd die... does that mean you weren't born?
i hate the arguements on this thread because they are often completely irrelevant.
You like the arguements on this thread or you wouldnt have responded.

:notsure: Speeyurm is exactly that sperm... but what happens when an egg is fertilized?
If one of your family members was involved in a car accident and went into coma, would you stop life support? If so at what point in time?
 

30-xtra high

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actually... if you want an example... a close friend to the family died from harrowin (none of my family members are on any drugs just to let you know), and he was on life support, and the mother left the discision up to my family because she said she couldn't handle pulling the plug on her son, and we had to "pull the plug" when he showed no signs of living a nice respectable life.
hope my example was good enough for you... i've got more if you want'm...
if you are the baby of your raped mother, my guess is she can't spend time with you, afford you, and both of thier lives would be unhappy.
 

watson3

Active Member
Originally Posted by 30-xtra high
actually... if you want an example... a close friend to the family died from harrowin (none of my family members are on any drugs just to let you know), and he was on life support, and the mother left the discision up to my family because she said she couldn't handle pulling the plug on her son, and we had to "pull the plug" when he showed no signs of living a nice respectable life.
hope my example was good enough for you... i've got more if you want'm...
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Only two things wrong with this 1> Was he over 18 2> If he was not she still had to sign the papers..
 

phixer

Active Member
So basically this womans Son was afforded an opprutunity to live before he chose to overdose right? Why shouldnt a baby have the same right?
"if you are the baby of your raped mother, my guess is she can't spend time with you, afford you, and both of thier lives would be unhappy"
So why make one bad event into two by depriving someone else the chance to provide this through adoption?
I would not want to live if it that were me either, but I would want the choice to die to be my own.
 

30-xtra high

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well as you know (i'm assuming you are an adult), kids cannot make decisions on their own... they're are 90% of the time wrong. and while you are a child your parents make your decisions for you such as your privledges, what you do, where you go ect..ect..ect.., and when you are in your mother, you are her child, she as the parent has the ability to make the decision for her child giving her the right to decide on the babies future... life or death.
and would you rather never have felt anything... or ruined your mothers life when she was raped have a kid, and give it away, then live life alone and freaked out.
 

30-xtra high

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Originally Posted by watson3
Only two things wrong with this 1> Was he over 18 2> If he was not she still had to sign the papers..

no he was 17, she did... when we advised her to end it.
 

phixer

Active Member
Originally Posted by 30-xtra high
well as you know (i'm assuming you are an adult), kids cannot make decisions on their own... they're are 90% of the time wrong. and while you are a child your parents make your decisions for you such as your privledges, what you do, where you go ect..ect..ect.., and when you are in your mother, you are her child, she as the parent has the ability to make the decision for her child giving her the right to decide on the babies future... life or death.
and would you rather never have felt anything... or ruined your mothers life when she was raped have a kid, and give it away, then live life alone and freaked out.
That is the fundamental arguement. The decision of life or death of an innocent baby should not be left to choice.
If the baby is given up for adoption, this is what happens.
1. The baby gets to live
2. The adoptive family gets a Son or Daughter
When the baby is killed this is what happens.
1. Mother still feels bad, killing the baby dosent erase the memory of a ---- and now she has to remember the ---- and the abortion.
2. Baby is deprived of life.
3. Adoptive parents deprived of a Son or Daughter.
The ---- is not the fault of the baby.
 

dskrezyna

Member
Originally Posted by Oceanists
Why does everything have to turn into a freaking debate on this site. The man asked a simple question.
When asking this question all people will want to do is debate it. This should have been made a poll with no replies allowed if you didnt want it debated
 

pontius

Active Member
Originally Posted by Phixer
So by getting rid of the clump we would be getting rid of a human life since the clump eventually becomes a human life.
no, it's not a human life until it becomes a human life. until then, it's just a clump.
 

phixer

Active Member
Originally Posted by Pontius
no, it's not a human life until it becomes a human life. until then, it's just a clump.
So since you do believe "it" will eventually become a human life and not a door knob or bench vise then what happens when "it" is aborted? One less human being will exist.
Would you agree with this?
 

30-xtra high

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1. you can't use the arguement that they baby doesn't get to live... the babyb doesn't know that.
2. there are so many orphans i'm sure the adoptive parents will get another.
3. it stops the mother from thinking about where her child is and what he/she is doing, therefor reminding her of when she was raped.
4. why are we so hung up on ----?... thats just 1 way. what about teen pregnancies?, what if the parents just aren't ready...
 

hot883

Active Member
Adoption sure gets brought up.
Here is a shocker; more and more Americans are going overseas to adopt babies because it's cheaper and safer.
Safer because the mothers that are , "lets say in China", don't have much of a chance to come here to try to get their baby back. I'm not bashing Chinese adoption, don't get me wrong.
 
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