Who are you (member photo thread)

1guydude

Well-Known Member
my bad my bad socal. lol i guess we all have are own little minds and little worlds dont we!

poor tiffs not gonna wanna respond anymore....btw scube huh.....never thought of that!
 

tiffanyk

Member
I signed the PG13 contract when I joined so its all good
gonna pass on the suba gear though, i prefer snorkeling gear!!
 
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siptang

Guest



I'm usually against internet picture postings and such but why not.
Pictures of my beautiful family.
My wife of 5 wonderful years and my beautiful son who was 1 here.
1st pic Georgia aquarium, 2nd Some mountain in California, 3rd Some mall on Beverly Hills.
 

socal57che

Active Member
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Originally Posted by Siptang http:///forum/thread/378595/who-are-you-member-photo-thread/340#post_3384979



I'm usually against internet picture postings and such but why not.
Pictures of my beautiful family.
My wife of 5 wonderful years and my beautiful son who was 1 here.
1st pic Georgia aquarium, 2nd Some mountain in California, 3rd Some mall on Beverly Hills.
Awesome! I love the water fountain pic. At first, I thought your little one was drinking from the fountain.
 
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siptang

Guest
yea... my little boy. He was (to me at least) the cutest, smartest, dearest little man...
I got majority of my fish from my tank because of him, he loved animals and loved fish and loved feeding the fish and sang while feeding the fish... ( he had a little stand so he could stand on it to see better and he would drag it himself every day.) It's been 2 months since he's gone and basically this tank is helping me keep my sanity.
 

socal57che

Active Member
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Originally Posted by Siptang http:///forum/thread/378595/who-are-you-member-photo-thread/340#post_3385321
yea... my little boy. He was (to me at least) the cutest, smartest, dearest little man...
I got majority of my fish from my tank because of him, he loved animals and loved fish and loved feeding the fish and sang while feeding the fish... ( he had a little stand so he could stand on it to see better and he would drag it himself every day.) It's been 2 months since he's gone and basically this tank is helping me keep my sanity.
I am so sorry to hear that. He's the reason I liked the pic so well. I know that there is nothing I can say to take away your grief, and I won't try, but I'm fighting back tears right now. I'd enjoy a few more pics of him, if you'd like to share them. My heart goes out to you and your wife.
 
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siptang

Guest
thank you so much guys.
Actually until couple of days ago I couldn't stare at his picture without bursting in tears but I find myself eager to share him with you guys. I thank you guys for that.

 

deejeff442

Active Member
the one with the phone is priceless.i am curious where are you from?my best friend is from thailand his wife can make some serious good food.
 

meowzer

Moderator
OH MY....I am sooooo sorry. I also know from experience words can not take away the pain....BUT LOOK at the pictures....remember what you had, and try NOT to dwell on what may have been.....(hard yes)
 
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siptang

Guest
Thanks guys... it does make me feel bit better that I can share him with you guys. Like I said earlier, I usually can't even see his pictures without breaking down...
it's very tough.... It was hardest thing that I had to ever deal with... it was just like yesterday when I welcomed him into this world and I had to sign him out of it....
My heart aches every time I see a child, hear a child.. actually everything because once you have a kid or kids, they become your world...
I don't know if everyone saw finding nemo, but in the beginning, when marlin loses coral and all the eggs minus nemo, he promises to his surviving egg and to himself that he will protect him, never let him out of sight and etc? yea, that was me when he was born and I live with guilt everyday that I couldn't keep that promise. I think every parents would understand what I'm talking about.
yea, he loved his fish and animals.
if you want to see him in video, you can check out youtube.com/dearnathan.
it was our tradition when I'm coming home, he would talk to me on the phone. No, he couldn't talk yet but he knew it was me and he would speak his baby words at me and grunt and things like uh huh uh huh yes. (He got that from my wife talking to me on the phone)
Thanks once again guys for your support, kind words and allowing me to share my boy and my grief with you guys.
 

kiefers

Active Member
Hang in there Siptang.... and yes, I believe most of us if not all had seen Nemo, so we do understand.
 

socal57che

Active Member
I watched all 9 of your videos. Thank you for sharing him with us. His smile is amazing. Before checking back here tonight, I wrote a note. Here's a copy-and-paste from my facebook profile...
perspective
Many of you know that we have been struggling financially as of late. We've done ok in the face of possible foreclosure and kept our wits about us. Things are changing and we are adapting. It's just a house, after all.
Lisa has been fighting a very nasty infection in her jaw. We have spent quite a few hours at the dentist and even made a trip to the family doctor. This, too, is manageable and we have taken the added dental cost in stride. At least Lisa is going to be ok. That's what really matters. Our homeowners association is nitpicking us to death and assessed fines for parking in the driveway. The most recent onslaught is a tuft of grass in front of our garage door. I want to pull my hair out. I killed the offensive grass and will remove it once the roots are dead. I just wonder what will be next. A couple days ago, we learned that Lisa's mother has a growth on one of her kidneys. Doctors said they were 80% sure the tumor is malignant. They are expected to remove and biopsy it in the next week or so. With prayer, we are ready to meet this new hurdle. God has kept us upright and steadfast. We thank him for his many blessings, especially when I may have a hard time seeing them because I tend to focus on repairing what is broken...it must be the mechanic in me.
Recently, someone I don't know shared a family photo with me and others that share one of my hobbies. I commented on the photo because the child stood out and caught my eye. It seemed as though he was drinking from an ornamental fountain, but the stream was merely passing in front of the boys mouth. The photograph captured the young boy's wonder at the column of water streaming through the air. One of his hands reached into the column and as the water broke around his hand, you could almost feel it. I let the man know that I liked that particular photo of the three of them. It portrayed a mother and father experiencing the world all over again with and through their child.
The man's reply to my comment broke my heart. He had buried his young son just two months ago. As I processed what I was reading, I thought about the situations that we are facing here at home. They pale in comarison to what this man and his wife are going through. I pray that I will never have to bury one of my children. For those of you that have, I weep for you now. For those that haven't, please join me in praise to God for sparing us this grief.
When life gets you down, or you feel like the good things in life are just out of reach....please step back, take another look, then put things into perspective.
 

spanko

Active Member
My condolences to you Siptang, I know first hand the pain of losing a son. Mine was 16, also a beautiful boy. Murdered while working at a pizzeria during a robbery.
You never get back to the normal you knew however there is a new normal that develops in the family. Keep your wife close, she and you will have some hard times but know you can get through them. Realize that each of you are in your own "bubble" of grief and that at some point you both need to really grab hold of each other and grieve together.
Helen Keller

All the world is full of suffering. It is also full of overcoming.
 

flower

Well-Known Member
Siptang.... He was a beautiful little child and all of you looked so happy in the pictures. Hold those sweet memories close to your heart, and remember you and your wife put that smile there, it may not have been long enough.. but his life was full of joy. I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
 
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