I admit that it's really cool to have a group of local people who share the same strange addictions. Most of the reef club members here are a little farther south than I am, so it's a bit of a hike to make it to the meetings, visit people, etc. But it's worth the time and gas $$ to spend some time with fellow weirdos, and I know that not everyone is so lucky. I'm indebted to Siptang for introducing me to these guys....I don't think I would have reached out on my own to a club that is (to me anyway) so far south.
Rae, have you looked around online to see about reef clubs in AZ? If you have any local fish stores, they usually have a good idea of the local and even not-so-local club events going on around your area. Heck, you could even go to the "reef club" section of that BIG reef forum and look in your region if there's anything. In fact, just a quick glance at that central reef site shows me that there are three AZ clubs that you might be interested in. Not sure of your location, so I can't narrow it down, but.......I would definitely look into it if I were you.
**EDIT BECAUSE I'M BLIND**
OK, so you're in Chandler. As it clearly states on your profile. Maybe I should use the eyeGoogle a bit more. And yes, it looks like there are a couple Phoenix clubs that might be up your alley.