Originally Posted by
jennythebugg
http:///forum/post/3194046
ok my dad has studied theology for almost 40 years
he started out as a youth minister and chritian counselor (for a job he was an accountant)
he was ordained as a christian pastor when i was a teenager
he became an associate pastor (worked a a hospice chaplain)
became pastor of westside christian church i wanna say about 11 years ago (very small church about 30 members) - the church i attend
was given rabbi status and about 2 years ago started simchat ha adonai (sp) ( a messianic church that currently has about 60 members and new people show up all the time) - i cook oneg for the members every saturday
became so busy with both churches he retired from hospice work
he lives kosher the rest of the family chooses not to
my mother is an IT tech and is the main ''breadwinner'' in the family
his paycheck from westside is less than 20,000 a year he signs it back to the church for tithes and offering
not sure how much he makes from simchat , its more than that but from what i heard not by much and they pay for the food i cook to feed everyone on saturday out of their pocket
he wakes up at 5 am every day and prays and meditates for at least 2 hours
then eats breakfast and works out for an hour
when his watch goes off he gets cleaned up and visits the old folks homes / shut ins on his list
if he is done before lunch he lunches with me and mom
then makes his rounds at the hospitals
then heads to the churches and writes his drash/ sermon and does any wedding and funeral writings he needs to do.
he comes home 6 ish and has dinner
studies in his office/ plays with the grandkids loves his wife till 10 pm when he goes to bed.
he is very regimented, he is not a rich man , and every member of their churches (both of them) are like family to us.
I fail to live the kind of life i should for him . (typical preachers daughter i guess)
that is basically a day in the life so you decide for yourself , i know that all pastors and rabbis are different, but i figured that because of the nature of the discussion you all would be interested
...Now if Messianics can grasp the fact that there is only One G-d and his name isn't Jesus...
Please notice that after 40 years of close study your dad came to the understnding that Judaism is the right way. That Jesus, nor his followers did away with the law. If you or anyone studies the books they will come to the same conclusion.
But I have to ask, live your life for him..doyou mean your father? You should live your life for yourself and G-d.