Not trying to butt in, but I thought I saw a post about the overflow possibly handling 1200gph????? Not a chance.....the overflow won't handle that flow.....From an earlier pic it seemed your overflow box was set alittle low IMO......I would raise it up and see what happens......If your pump is pulling more water and the sump level is going down quickly that would explain your noisey, crazy sump action.....By raising the water level in the sump it would quite down, but then you have to wonder if your system shut down would you have enough backflow room in the sump to handle the drain off????
Try adding more water to the sump and open the pump up slowly.....Keep your eyes on the MT and watch the water level, and open or close according to how the overflow box is handling the flow......If it's fine keeping up with the increase of flow watch the sump level.......once you get it balanced shut the pump down and see how much back flow you get from the MT.....If it get "hairy" fire the Main pump and then you know your water level is to high for the sump to handle.....
Quick question???? How are you running your returns back to the MT....Are they submerged under the water line? What implementations do you have in place to prevent back syphoning as well?